Moved to San Diego. Goodbye Oakland. Goodbye Bay Area.

Being a parent is a full time gig..not much time for any of this anymore...

So...my membership is up soon, and I'm not resubscribing. I just don't have time anymore to be an active member on the site, and I'm just never on here anymore...

My best to all my friends.

I totally feel like I'm watching history being made....and this history is so beautiful. No lynchings so far.


Portland, Ore., joined San Francisco and upstate N.Y. today in issuing same-sex marriage licenses as the national movement built momentum. Bobbi Davis (left) and Heather Spotts can't wait to get theirs outside Multnomah County offices.

Yea! San Francisco for being ballsy. It only takes one voice to make a stand and start an avalanche. Yea! Portland for standing up beside us for what is right.

Ok so I'm off to Amoeba to see a free 5pm British Sea Power show, and then to Mad Dog in the Fog for a few drinks and then on to the Fillmore for Super Furry Animals. It's Friday and I'm in love....with music and SF anyway.

Valentines:

When we met it seemed like fate
Now I think I was just bait

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Love is beautiful, love is bliss
I slept with you cause I was pissed.

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I thought that I could love no other
Until, that is, I met your brother.

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Sexy, intelligent, loving and hot;
That is everything you are not.

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I love your laughlines, your ass and your eyes -
Damn, I'm good at telling lies!

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I see your face when I am dreaming.
That is why I wake up screaming.

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My love, you take my breath away.
What can you use to stop that decay?

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My feelings for you no words can tell,
Except for maybe "go to hell".

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In my heart and mind your image burns eternal
Rather like piss on herpes sores--it's infernal

Who is your favorite philosopher, or what is your favorite philosophical work and why?

Cats or Dogs?
Spring or Autumn?
Wireless or Land Line?
Laptop or Desktop?

Do tell.

Me? I'm Cats. Autumn. Wireless. Desktop.

Well, I just had my first "creepy" experience since rejoining the site in July. When I was on here before as Modgirl, I had a few stalker/creepazoid types that wouldn't leave me alone. Well I've attracted some again. Grrrr....

I'm pulling my pics down. I may go totally "anonymous."

For the record.
A. I don't want to fuck you. I don't know you. If I know you and want to fuck you, I'll let you know, believe me. I'm a direct girl where sex is concerned.

B. I don't want to get a picture of your cock via e-mail. I don't care what your cock looks like. It's neither going to upset me to get pictures of it nor will it titilate me. It simply bores me and makes me put you on my "spam" list.

C. I don't want to hear what you'd like to do sexually with me. Hearing about your fantasies is not sexually arousing for me. I don't even read them, I just delete the message and put you on my spam list.

Get a life.