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AUGUST 18, 2010 @ 07:41 PM | 5 COMMENTS


So, officially, my account here on SG expires tomorrow.

Not leaving because I hate anybody, or because of drama, or because I've lost a taste for a daily dose of young, nubile, hot, strong women. It was just time, man. I've gotten plenty out of being on here for the past 4ish years. I've made a handful of solid friends, and I think that that means I've gotten my money's worth. There's nothing really new or useful on here for me anymore, and there hasn't been for a while, so for me it's just high time to find the next thing. A lot of you have been fun to meet and be around (especially SGNY, and the ECCT folks I've met camping), and I truly hope not to lose touch.

I'm not on Facebook or Twitter (and I'm quite proud of that, actually). So do me a favor and e-mail me your contact info right away if you want to keep in touch with me. I hope that'll be a lot of you. And do it now so you don't forget!

I'm at:
edh@computizeconsulting.com

Peace, love, and titties! biggrin
-Edward



(And no, this doesn't have to do with my last post.)
AUGUST 15, 2010 @ 01:24 PM | 5 COMMENTS


I'm officially totally off the market, and incredibly happy and nervous.



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No, seriously! I am.

I proposed to my girlfriend Maria this past week, at night, under a palm tree, on a beach in Spain while we were on vacation together.

Very few of you have met her. But I assure you I'm blessed, lucky, and hardly deserving of the gem I'm with and hope to be with forever.


AUGUST 3, 2010 @ 10:54 AM | 2 COMMENTS


I think last night was my first summer concert so far this year.
Slick Rick, Naughty By Nature, and Salt n Pepa (in that order) for FREE in a random park in the depths of Brooklyn. Unbelievably fun. Each performance was better than the one before it.
But I've never been disappointed yet at the hopeless disorganization linked like a suckling child to any and every hip-hop show of any sort.

I want gold like Slick Rick. How does he go to the bathroom in all that?

I've barely been going out or otherwise being social for the past month and a half. Lots of traveling for work, so my life's been a little boring. But that's let up now, so August is going to be fun. Headed abroad on vacation this Saturday morning, but a week later I'm back and ready for action. Hit me up!

JUNE 9, 2010 @ 02:05 PM | 10 COMMENTS


My new favorite word this month is:
"vajazzling"
JUNE 6, 2010 @ 07:02 AM | 2 COMMENTS


Today's half of the weekend will be consumed by making love slabs out of these mountains of pork I just put on the grill. We'll check up on them in a few hours, and then make some souls happy.

This has gotta win me some Karma points, won't it?
MAY 18, 2010 @ 06:04 PM | 2 COMMENTS


And now for a photo of my blessed crotch:

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I got that at the NYC Tattoo Convention on Friday for ten bucks, and it's really solid and hefty. Pretty cool event. Loved the sideshow guys, like the one who swallowed 5 razor blades and then pulled them out of his mouth all on a string together.



I'm stoked that tomorrow I finally get to do something for Habitat for Humanity. That's a really, really hard charity to become a member of, I guess because so many people want to do it. It's taken me about three years of off--and-on attempts. Tomorrow will be my first actual gig.

...but of course I still have something to bitch about. I (selfishly) really wanted to do something I haven't done before. We'll be painting a school all day tomorrow. Blahh. No drywall framing, no plumbing, tiling, nothing cool like that. We're not even building a home for poor people. Blahh.

MAY 10, 2010 @ 09:40 PM | 5 COMMENTS


Perhaps time for an update, no?

I don't think I posted about it, but in late March I went on vacation with the girlfriend for a week to Costa Rica.
We walked the volcano, ate fruit from roadside stands in front of farms, laid out on nearly empty beaches, sat in incredible natural hot springs, and saw plenty of wildlife.

(Just a few)

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This was actually a "popular" beach.
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A three-toed sloth. Probably injured, because on the ground he's still in a branch, and he's sitting in a pile of his own poo.
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ATVs in a Central American jungle=RAWK!!!
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Somebody throw this dillweed overboard.
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And the girl and I are still an item. All is still great there.

I played soccer in an indoor league over the winter, and now I'm doing a weekly dribbling clinic outdoors on turf. That's really fun, and I'm definitely getting better. But my legs are in about three days of pain after each session. It would likely help if I actually exercised during the week between each lesson. whatever

Work's picked up to the point of paying the bills, but I'm still in search of some consulting work. So let me know if you know anyone who needs a database architect/administrator/developer. I'll knock their freakin' socks off.

MARCH 4, 2010 @ 06:01 PM | 8 COMMENTS


March already! I've been meaning to get this post on here for literally about two months now.

Between I think October and New Year's, I think I only posted a blog here once. It was largely because nothing was going on, but at the same time a lot was going on. If you've got a few minutes for the whole long story:

Background

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I wasn't working during that time. Pretty much at all. My work is kind of on the freelance tip, and there was no business. My goal during that time was to catch up on a bunch of things that I'd needed to get around to for about the past year, but never had time. It was all stuff to benefit me in the future and gather more business. Things like building a website for the first time for the consulting business I've had for 13 years, plus a bunch of other methods of chasing down more work. I was trying to do all this from home, and failed miserably. I was insanely distracted, mostly by toys at home and all sorts of errands that almost took over as each day's work. Not good. And I'd end each day feeling intensely guilty about not getting anything done.



Social Life

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Since August I'd been seeing an unbelievable woman, a teacher from Long Island who was an absolute diamond of a person. Beautiful, intelligent, flavorful, and we even shared some of the same neuroses. All my lack of accomplishment was really getting to me late in the year, though: the guilt and disappointment in my self over how I was getting nothing important done, even as I tried to strip away as many distractions as possible. Around mid-December I had to put that relationship on hold because I had nothing to contribute to it, and in order to get anything of my own done I had to be left with nothing to pay attention to or do but work. She was kind enough to totally understand.



Good News and Bad News

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Around mid-December, somehow things started to pick up. I've since checked the majority of my to-do list off, and I'm far more motivated to work, take my goals (more) seriously, and act on that like a normal person should. I'm even paying better attention to my health.
The catch is that the one force behind all that positive change is a new woman I met around Thanksgiving. Yeah, there was some overlap, but I told her, too, that I was not in a situation to be a presence in a relationship. She had ankle surgery and wasn't able to even go out much, as it happened, so basically we did a lot of sitting around together and ended up coupling off. She's so driven, hard-working, and put together, that it ended up setting this example for me to live up to, and I credit her (presence) fully for taking me out of my funk.
The miserable thing is that I had to break someone's heart as a result of my new relationship, which I'm fully committed to now. I felt horrible, both about doing that to an amazing woman I cared about, about breaking a promise, about adding to someone else's pains. I hate even the thought of making some one cry tears of sorrow.



Conclusion.

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So, in retrospect, I was depressed. But I had no idea. I'm guessing I'd just never had the pleasure before. Now I know. What's crazy to me is that I couldn't/didn't get out of it by myself. I'm endlessly grateful for my girl being the one to shine the light for me, but until now I've always been the most self-reliant person I know.
She's not on this pervy mess of a site, but I hope a number of you get to meet her.



So, lesson learned, life improved. I'm moving on and at least splashing around a little in some happiness.

MARCH 2, 2010 @ 07:02 PM | 4 COMMENTS


Big huzzah for this past weekend.
Had an absolute blast at the Fishbone concert at Irving Plaza. They haven't lost a thing. (English Beat was really tame, by comparison. Pretty wack bill, if you ask me.)

Went snowboarding yesterday for the first time this season. Mountain Creek's not bad on an empty Monday.
I had quite the moment of glory when I was going to just ride slowly over this bump/kicker, and lo and behold I end up on the near end of a 25 foot downward-sloping rail that I didn't even know was there. Made it all the way to the end. Oontz, oontz, oontz, oontz! EL SUICIDO LOCOEL SUICIDO LOCOEL SUICIDO LOCO

Things that suck this week: leaving my cell phone in New Jersey, and the taxes I realize I've got to pay this year.


Big-assed, catch-you-all-up with everything post coming very soon.
JANUARY 17, 2010 @ 09:51 PM | 13 COMMENTS


Oh, lookie, a new post!

Two months, has it been, since my last?
It's one of those "there's been so much going on, that I've had no time to update" situations.

I really have a ton to put out there and tell you about, but you'll have to stay tuned a little bit for that.
For now, on to the point:

I'm Haitian. Both my parents are basically off the boat. So where that puts me, post-earthquake now, is that I have cousins that I've known well since my childhood who still live down there. We suffered one loss this past week. My cousin Christine's husband didn't make it out of his office building, which collapsed. He and I weren't close, but he was a great guy and a great father to their two teenage kids. I'm bummed that my family members down there have to deal with this. I'm thankful that we only lost one, and that my cousins are well-situated and not paying the cost of survival (lack of medical care, food, & water) like so many other Haitians now .

Please, please join me in donating some money to help more innocents live on. The Clinton Foundation and Yele Haiti are reputable organizations through which you can help.
Thanks.
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