Member: MissKristin

MissKristin Happily unmarried.

I’m private
 
MAY 25, 2008 @ 05:54 PM

Ive been trying to keep my mind off my up coming biopsy in 9 days that basically decides whether I live or die, so for now I am enjoying every moment I can with someone I love so very much... plus, hes so hot *airhups*
PICTURES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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He was always there for me, even if he felt as far as the moon.


Someone with enough strength for him self and to carry me.


I knew he would be there for me when I needed him, and he was.


Trying to protect me from the one thing he can't save me from.


I play dress up to enjoy a little normalcy in my time of confinement, something to pull me out of this ground hog day loop.


A gaze into eyes with hopes for a tomorrow,


the sunken dark circled eyes are a reminder that I am in fact sick.


But it is all so easily forgotten due to a kiss that comparable to no other.

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wyldewolfe

wyldewolfe

Montgomery, AL
August 2007

MAY 26, 2008 08:37 PM

Discovered you through Kay's blog.
Hugs, prayers, an warm thoughts.

My Dad is an amazing man, and I wish I could be half the man that he is.
He has beaten three different types cancer.
Here is an article that was just in the local paper about him...

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According to medical science, Elvin Stanton didn't have a prayer because he had one of the worst types of cancer in his body.

But according to those who be­lieve in the Lord, prayer was in fact the answer.

Not only did Stanton survive what is medically considered to be terminal colon cancer, he also whipped prostate and kidney can­cer -- all within an 8-year period.

Some might credit modern medicine for his amazing recover­ies. Others might point to a mira­cle or luck or one man's strong will. Stanton will accept any of those explanations, but he's lean­ing heavily toward a higher pow­er.

"My battle with cancer would test my reliance on God and pro­vide me an opportunity to draw from that reservoir of faith, in­stilled deep into my heart by my parents and Christian upbring­ing," Stanton said.

He's chronicled his successful fight with three unrelated types of cancer in his book, "CANCER: Faith over Fear." It spotlights the moment he and his wife, Cameron, first learned of the insidious killer in his body.

Stanton, who was 62 when he got the bad news and is going strong today at 70, remembers asking his Birmingham doctor about his chances of survival. He had Stage Four cancer -- the worst kind -- and it had spread from his colon to his liver. When people reach that stage, it's an indication that death might be near.

"My doctor said my chances of survival were slim, less than 10 percent," Stanton recalled. "He put it in the single digits, but, he also said 'Somebody has to be that single digit and it might as well be you.'"

Even with that little bit of en­couragement, it didn't help his mental health at that moment. Stanton, a former reporter and once one of Alabama's most recog­nizable political figures, reacted the way most patients would when informed that the end might be only a few months away. His doc­tor didn't sugar coat anything in terms of his condition or his im­mediate future.

"He told me if I had any loose ends in my life, I needed to take care of them and get my house in order," Stanton said. "He indicat­ed that I was looking at three months, maybe six months at the most."

It didn't get any better when he and his wife began to look on their own for ways to beat colon cancer.

"We learned from the Internet that I had a better chance of win­ning the lottery than beating my kind of cancer because of how far it had progressed," said Stanton, who credits his wife and their church with helping him win a dif­ferent kind of jackpot: It's called survival.

After surgery, the Stantons learned that Elvin Stanton's can­cer had not only damaged a section of his colon, it had also metasta­sized and spread to his liver. As he was coming out of anesthesia, his wife asked the doctor: 'What are you telling me? Is my husband going to die?"

"Well, he's not going to die right now...let's not go there right now," she said the surgeon told her.

Once the top aide to Gov. George C. Wallace and a man fa­miliar with political struggles, Stanton knew the fight ahead of him was a matter of life and death, not winning elections.
...
While Stanton was receiving chemotherapy treatments and his wife was busy studying colon can­cer, members of Woodland United Methodist Church came even closer to the couple.

"What I remember most during that time was the response of the church to really pray for them, to lift them before the Lord in pray­er," said the Rev. Cory Smith. "El­vin's illness was used in a way that drew all of us closer together and to God at the same time."

Woodland's prayer group meets on Sunday nights and a "healing service" was held for Stanton, as it has for other mem­bers of the church with medical problems.

"All of this was going on at the same time my medical treatment was under way," he said.
...
With a family history like that, it was reason enough for Stanton to have a medical examination. Once the diagnosis was made, a surgeon removed the cancerous section of his colon. Six weeks aft­er his recovery period ended, a panel of doctors was ready to rec­ommend a standard form of che­motherapy, one used for 40 years.

His wife, meanwhile, learned of a noted physician at the National Institute of Health's oncology de­partment and he joined their little "team" after reading her hus­band's pathology reports.
...
As his treatment con­tinued, Stanton became so ill he wound up in a hospital.
...
Then, Stanton began to get bet­ter -- as he would when the two other types of cancer emerged. He and Cam have no doubts in their minds that treatments were spirit­ual as well as medical. He beat prostate cancer in 2006 and kidney cancer last year.

Stanton said the 140-page book he's written is "about a miracle of God and not about me."

"What I'm trying to do with my book is help people who are deal­ing with cancer and urge them to take charge of their own treatment and get support from others," he said. "In our case, it was our church."

Stanton, who has begun to speak to civic clubs and other groups in Montgomery about his cancer recoveries, firmly believes that God pulled him through in or­der to help others facing similar situations.

"He's using me to tell people that whatever you go through in life, He'll be there with you," he said."You just don't go through these things alone."

His book is dedicated to the love of his life -- for obvious rea­sons.

"If it hadn't been for Cam, I'd be dead," he said.



He has survived three bouts with three different types of cancer. One of them being type 4that had moved to his liver,and as of last week was still cancer free according to his Doctor. He has written a book about his cancer which can be bought here just click on authors andscroll down.

ZPO

ZPO

Olympia, WA
July 2004

MAY 26, 2008 09:02 PM

I don't care what the science says. Having someone special can help you kick cancer's ass.

charlemagne

charlemagne

Battle Creek, MI
May 2005

MAY 27, 2008 07:38 AM

All I can do is pray for you.

PerilousPup

PerilousPup

I'm lost
May 2007

MAY 27, 2008 10:41 AM

i appreciate the fact that you both do your best to bring sexytime to the hospital, they do seem to lack that certain romantic vibe, but i think you two have it all over cards, balloons, stuffed animals + flowers! smile

i found you through both kay + noir's blogs and had to play catch up to know what was going on.

it's amazing how quickly things happen and how much events can change perspective. i hope regardless of the outcome that you are fearless, and that every day something, someone makes you happy. i think you are doing your best + that's what matters. kiss

Retrogirl

Retrogirl

I'm lost
October 2006

MAY 27, 2008 11:15 AM

I love ya girlie and I am rooting for you and I agree dan is the man I am so so glad you have each other<55

sabine8

sabine8

I'm lost
March 2007

MAY 27, 2008 11:42 AM

You're in my thoughts sweetie and I'm sending healing vibes your way. Good luck with the biopsy.
Your courage and positive attitude is truly inspiring. You blow me away. smile

Those pics are so cute. It sounds like you've got a wonderful guy.

kiss smile

Sharona1881

Sharona1881

Floral Park, NY
July 2004

MAY 27, 2008 12:08 PM

*HUGS* you are loved and in my thoughts and prayers daily.. seeing you and dan together makes me smile big biggrin

SWBdog

SWBdog

Boston, MA
April 2008

MAY 27, 2008 09:13 PM

Kristin,

We learned of you through Kay's blog, and wanted to let you know we will keep you in our prayers every day.

FWIW, we have a friend who had leukemia, and although it took more than one bone marrow transplant, he did survive, and has been cancer free for over five years now.

Be strong. You can beat this, too!


Regards,

Mr. & Mrs. K

TheFuckOffKid

TheFuckOffKid

NEWSWIRE

Australia

MAY 28, 2008 02:46 AM

Love and warm thoughts and good vibes to you. kiss

Kay

Kay

SUICIDEGIRL

Antarctica

MAY 29, 2008 04:48 PM

Indeed. Please keep us posted on the results. The wait, is the hardest.

When my mother was diagnosed with Huntington's Disease, that was bad enough. My waiting for my own test results was an eternity. (the disease is genetic, and terminal) Needless to say, even though the results are not what I prayed for, at least the wait to find out was over, and I was so relieved. I had waited 6 months for my results because I got tested out of the country.

Hang in there lady. I am rooting for you.

~cheers

Kay

Kay

SUICIDEGIRL

Antarctica

MAY 30, 2008 03:24 PM

*sitting here with fingers crossed*

~cheers

Sky

Sky

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

JUN 01, 2008 06:38 AM

good luck x

Afterbirth

Afterbirth

Johnson, VT
January 2003

JUN 01, 2008 03:51 PM

I really can't go a day without thinking of y'all.
I hope that doesn't piss God off.....

trixxx

trixxx

I'm lost
January 2004

JUN 02, 2008 10:09 AM

thinking of you daily and am giggling over the pics of you and yer man, love to you both!

SWBdog

SWBdog

Boston, MA
April 2008

JUN 03, 2008 06:43 PM

Hi, Kristin. Thinking of you and praying for you. Hope things went well for you today.

--K

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