So I kind of started school yesterday. Well, I went to the college, at least. I took my typing assessment. I was there for just over an hour, and I achieved a score of 65 words per minute with just one error
Regular school will start for me on Monday, and I am pretty nervous/excited... nercited? It's been a LONG time since I've been in a classroom. Since my classes are pretty short, they will be intensive - usually 9am-4pm for a few days. I still have things to do before Monday too - pick up my books at the bookstore, as well as calling to confirm a class. I know it doesn't sound like much at all, but I'm kind of anxious about it. I really hate calling people
On Monday afternoon I will go meet with my orthopedic surgeon (the one for my hips, not my shoulder). I had an MRI and bone scan last year, along with x-rays, then on Monday before my appointment I will have more x-rays. We will decide what course of action we are going to take with my hip. I have two options, apart from putting off surgery. They are:
Osteotomy
and
Total Hip Replacement
Personally, I'm rooting for the Total Hip Replacement, as the recovery time is FAR shorter (I am up and walking within days, whereas with the Osteotomy, I would be on crutches/in a wheelchair for 10-12 weeks). I can foresee problems with being on crutches as well, considering I need shoulder surgery soonish for my chronically dislocating shoulders
Soooo, I will likely be having surgery within the next year, possibly as soon as the summer. Heckler will for sure be living here by then, so that will be nice. My ex husband, trocar, is moving back to the Island in the summertime as well, so that will be a wonderful support (he was here for the holidays, staying in the house with us, and it was really great for the kids). So yeah, being surrounded by family and my friends who are willing to help will be a real blessing.
In preparation for surgery, I am redoubling my efforts to lose weight. I have more than a few extra pounds I'm dragging around with me, and I would very much like to get rid of them. My doctors also say that the less I weigh, the less pressure will be on my joints. I have started using a calorie counter on this site, which is helping me be accountable for what I eat (I am notorious for snacking
I have a couple secksy pictures to post, but I'm not alone in them... I don't know if I should post them in my blog or in the Exhibitionists group or what
I'm so happy I think I might burst wif squeeeeeeee!

My mom and Heckler

Christmas Dinner

Turkey


My ex, trocar came to stay for three weeks with us. His brother came for four days as well.


Reading Twas the Night Before Christmas (my daughter is sitting on her dad's lap on a chair out of the photo)





I had to work for New Years, so we don't have any photos from that night. The fella I care for had lots of plans - we were at a pub, a casino, and then at a friend's house. Heckler was able to come with me, which was fantastic. We didn't get into bed til 5am

Waiting for the ferry to Vancouver



Mmmmm, ferry poutine!

Just after the ferry ride was the short trip to the airport. We said our goodbyes (tearfully!) and I went right back to the ferry terminal. It was a long trip home by myself
On Tuesday, we got some news regarding his immigration process - though we still don't know what the decision was! The update on our online file said that Immigration Canada would contact Heckler via snail mail. We're both really anxious, but I did some research online, and I *think* the verdict will be positive. He's done everything he was supposed to (medical exams, police record checks, allllll that paperwork), and we checked and rechecked that our package was complete. I can't see them denying him permanent residence without so much as an interview. Please keep your fingers crossed for us!
Tonight is my first weekend back at work, and I totally don't wanna go! I have good news on the job front though!!! I visited the local job search centre for some help with finding something I can do (I walk with a cane, and I think a lot of employers turn me down because of it). As it turns out, I qualified for some technical training, through a program with the Ministry of Education. I went to a meeting yesterday at the college and I was accepted into some office training courses, along with bookkeeping and file management. Eeeeek! So excited. I go for the first time on January 19th
Sorry I haven't been around much - I'm just trying to enjoy every single second with him ♥
Spoilered for length
Since that second incident:
* I missed work two days last weekend (and I *only* work weekends)
* my mom and I set up Christmas lights
* I wrapped almost all of the gifts I've bought so far, all while watching Christmas specials and movies (A Muppet Christmas Carol, The Grinch, Frosty, Rudolph, Charlie Brown, etc.)
* a friend came to spend the day with me and all we did was watch movies alllll day
We watched "God Told Me to Kill," "The Lost Skeleton of Cadavra" and "The Lost Skeleton Returns Again," as well as a bunch of MST3K.
* my asthma was kind of acting up... I was sounding like a creaky floorboard whenever I was laying down. I decided to get it checked, just in case - this time last year, I had pneumonia. I'm on antibiotics now, though no inhalers. Upper respiratory infection, I'm guessing (the doctor didn't say much)
* my mom bought me a Charlie Brown Christmas tree

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What's Marvel without a lil Wolverine?

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It's been snowing steady all day here today, we woke up to maybe an inch, and more is falling. With Ranger next to me in the front seat, I drove my lil guy to school, instead of waiting around outside for the bus, we made it there just fine. I stopped at the hardware store for some hula hoop supplies (I'm going to make my own). The grocery store was my next stop - my daughter has a cold, and she wanted cough drops. I also needed some essentials, like milk. Ranger's vet appointment was next, which is just past the downtown core of our little town. I was going pretty slow as it was, and I still slid into the parking lot at the vet's
I'm happy to report that Ranger's tumor was NOT cancer
Getting back up the hill from the vet's office was no easy feat, but we made it. I saw people getting stuck and fishtailing here and there. I did need to go to the bank as well, but I figured that could wait - at that point, I really just wanted to get home.
When I turned off the main road onto the road that would take me home, I felt the difference in how much snow was under my tires. I geared down and went really slow. I went past the rec centre, and saw two cars stuck at the top of the hill. There was a HandyDart (small bus, often used to transport the elderly and people in wheelchairs - in our neighbourhood, anyone can take the handydart, because there aren't city buses going through our area), also on the hill, several lengths behind the two stuck cars. I felt bad that their lane was blocked, but I decided to keep going. If I stopped, I'd be blocking traffic in my lane, and who knows if I would be any help. I slowly went down the hill, and the HandyDart started to come up


The bus had me pinned against the curb, and the driver refused to move the bus at all (the bus was fine, by the way, not even a scratch). Someone who worked for a fire department happened to be stuck waiting for us to move, so she got out and directed traffic - letting some cars go up, then some cars down. Many of them slipped and slid about & needed a push. The driver and I traded info and eventually, she moved forward a bit. Two men helped push my car off the curb and I was on my way. I got about a third of the way up the next hill, but got stuck in the snow. Two pedestrians and the driver of the van behind me (who was also stuck) helped push me up the hill, and I parked near the lake trails (where the hikers park). I got what groceries I could carry out of the car, and my dog, and set out on foot. I walk with a cane too, for those of you who don't know.
Two blocks up the road, I was nearly in tears... Ranger was pulling so hard (excited to be out in the snow) and I was moving as slow as I could because of the pain... it was brutal. I flagged down a truck and asked the driver for a ride up the hill. He obliged, which was AMAZING! I was so thankful!!! As it turns out, the fella worked in the neighbourhood, and actually helped build my house. Cool beans.
My day didn't end there, but I won't go into great detail about that.... let me just say that it involved two more kilometers of trudging through the snow. My arthritis is flaring up and I am generally ouchie.
Enjoy some Harry Potter pics

Mmmmm, manly



booooots

blurry

mwahahaha




My friend Kelly & I - he arrived there at 9am for the 7pm showing! That's dedication right there!



Kimmy as a student from Slytherin, myself as Tonks, and my friend Jared as Lupin








