I wish I had the energy to tell you guys all about our adventure so far - has it really been a week already??? I'm not tired just because of that
Heckler arrived on Monday afternoon, we came home and had slow-cooker chicken and crashed for the night

Coffee time

Friday we had an SG night at a bar called Snatch - that was full of awesome. We grabbed our name tags from the front and then found a bed in the club with our real names on it
Saturday we went into The City to drop off my foster cat, "Mama" (a misnomer - she wasn't pregnant afterall, just fat) and to pick up a mama kitteh (Jess) and her FIVE two-week-old kittens. There are two black and white ones - Marmite & Marmalade, two grey tabbies - Sock & Moe, and one fluffy white one with orange splotches - Toastie.

Jess and Moe
As far as conventional adventury type things, we've been to the Royal Tyrrell Museum in Drumheller, AB - which was so much fun. If I can sort thru all Heckler's images, I might find a couple to post. My Hecklepants bought me a wee triceratops ♥ my absolute favourite dinosaur. We also went and climbed up the World's Largest Dinosaur

Museum

Silly me

Wink?

Sign fail

Us
***UPDATE***

Wednesday, November 19th 10am-ish
I have some effing wonderful friends. I just need to say that.
As you may or may not know, I live about a 15 hour drive from my hometown - my family, my friends, practically everyone I know is back there. I've made some friends out here, like tilpacer, and Synema (who is sadly no longer active on the site). I separated from my spouse at the beginning of this year, and as time has passed I've been feeling increasingly isolated out here.
AsciraHalcyon & Pagz put together an amazing care package for me this week ♥ I won't go into too much detail as to what they sent... but movies, some of my favourite tv shows, music, a book and some amazing drawings. (now I just need to find out what to do with a "codec" or whatever the heck it is lol). Thanks to you both, and your co-conspirators
Rusty_Metal_Ass Rocks my Socks
Lookit what he made for Heckler and I

A Hallowe'en-ified profile pic - this was the original

These are some of the many pictures from the adventure Heckler and I went on in the spring of this year... some you may have seen, some maybe not. ***Spoilered for SQUEEEEEEEEEE content***
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Non Stop Pop
It went live yesterday, but I got to see it a little early - it totally made my day.
I've been playing friend matchmaker a little lately, something I don't think I've ever done before. I sent my girlfriend AsciraHalcyon links to Pagz's blog and his comic - I knew they'd hit it off well because of their mutual (and mind-boggling knowledge of) Star Wars. Ascira is one of my very best real-life friends, and it just so happens that Pagz lives in our hometown
The Countdown
26 more sleeps til Heckler arrives
Squeeeeee Spoiler Alert
Other News
Sadly, the latest foster kitten - Pumpkin, 11 days old, passed away yesterday. It hurt a lot, to lose another one, after Puddin' died just last week.
Zero, Puddin's brother, had to come back from Petsmart for some interm foster care because his eye infection returned. I've become ridiculously attached to him, so I'm going to adopt him. I feel like he needs me, and I know I need him.
Mama Kitteh finally has a name. I felt really bad just referring to her as Mama, because she has a personality all her own aside from her being an impending mother. She's sweet and chubby, and rather motherly anyway (she rubs on my puppy George, even though the dog is a total brat to her). So I decided to name her Molly, after Molly Weasley.

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Molly
... wow... all my "other news" revolved around kittehs. I'd better not be turning into one of those crazy cat ladies. You'll let me know if I am, right?
Here are a couple recent pics

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(this sweater was made for me by AsciraHalcyon figure since I mentioned her, I'd pimp her wares
a lot of it was her own design)

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.... apparently I'm in a "no pants" phase or something
On Saturday, I went to Petsmart to meet up with the founder of the rescue and drop off my foster kittens. They had improved *so* much ~ their eyes and weight had improved by leaps and bounds. Fussy stopped hating people, Zero became more outgoing, LiL Brudder became a great little snuggler and Doom Kitteh got FAT. I was sad to see my little ones going, but hopeful that they'd find wonderful homes.
I had a bad day
This was meant to be a happy post, but today, at 3:49pm, Puddin' died in my arms. She was always the smallest, and a week ago I started syringe feeding her primarily as she lost interest in food. Her eye infection came back. The consensus between the vet & the rescue was "Failure to Thrive" - but I didn't give up. Puddin' slept with me Saturday night, as I was worried about her getting cold in the night (as it was her first night without her siblings). When she wasn't curled up in bed with me, or snug in my hoodie, she was with a hot water bottle closeby. It wasn't enough.
I had kept Puddin' with me, not just because her being underweight/not being healthy enough for adoption - I kept her because I wanted her to be my kitty. She was such a love. She snuggled with my dogs, she tolerated me fussing over her. She was awesome.


Heckler stayed online with me during Puddin's last moments (and the time leading up to that) - and I couldn't be more thankful. Pagz waited patiently for the news. Thank you guys so much. And to AsciraHalcyon & Faytal_Kraydel... I don't know how I'd get through this without my closest friends.
I filed my divorce papers yesterday. I've been working up to it for awhile... and I finally did it. I had to drive right into the core of The City, and that freaked the crap out of me. But I did it. I found my way there, I filed the papers, and I smiled.
Not to say that I'm happy that the relationship I had is "officially" over - I love my ex still very much, we just weren't meant for one another. He's found someone to love and so have I... it can be over now.
Also, the elevators went wicked fast. I'm one of those kids who *loves* rollercoasters, and I literally had to sit down afterward. Just for fun, I went all the way up, then all the way down before I left
/divorce talk
In other news, yesterday was also a big day because Heckler booked his flight for his visit in November
My very best girlfriend joined SG recently, and I couldn't be happier about it. I think she'll fit in well around here. Her name is AsciraHalcyon, and she's amazingly fantastic (she also outdoes me in Star Wars nerdery
I've made a wonderful friend here on SG from my hometown
Farewell to Foster Kittehs
Four of my five foster babies are headed to Petsmart this weekend. It'll be a bittersweet goodbye. They've come SO far ~ Doom Kitteh is actually getting a little fat
It'll just be little Puddin staying with me. She doesn't eat enough food on her own (wet or dry, Stage II weaning food or no), so I'm syringe-feeding her twice a day in addition to the little bit she eats that gets placed in front of her. The foster kitten that was brought in a week after the first four - L'iL Brudder - is weeks younger than her and is so much bigger than her. Her bones are very easy to feel through her skin
I'll update with pics soon.
Hellooooooooooooooooooooo Kitty
LoL, I'm not giving myself much of a break from kitteh care - the rescue has a pregnant barn cat who needs a quiet place to have her babies, where they can be socialized and properly fed. I'm picking her up on Saturday when I drop off my four babies. I'll have them until December
... and I guess that's about all that's going on. Life is throwing me curve balls left right and centre, but I'm doing well. Thank you to all of my friends who help me through it all, really ♥













