You may want to research Psychological projection ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection ). Could be that he is the one with the problem over the kids.

There is no excuse for his behavior. None.

"Women like you deserve to be hit" is criminal. There is absolutely no excuse to ever hit a spouse/partner. Never. None.

He doesn't own you. He should want to see you grow, not hold you back. He should support you, not tear you down. Frankly this sounds like a deeply abusive relationship, and one you would be well rid of.

You deserve so much more, so much better. Please stay safe and know you ARE loved.

Babe, the things he said to you, only a fucking utter cunt would say. Who the fuck does he think he is?!

If he really has gone for good, I say yay because you can do sooooooooo much better than have a bastard like him in your life.

I've read your blogs the last few months and been pretty annoyed at times for the things he's said to you but tonight is like the last straw. What could you have possibly done to deserve such hate in his words? The answer? Nothing. There's nothing you could have done to deserve that shit.

As for your babies; they really don't need such a negative influence in their life as him, really. What kind of role model would he be to them talking to their mummy like that?! Tell him from me, I think he's a fucking turd.

My advice would be to get rid; you are a beautiful person, inside and out and you deserve far better.

Having said that people have been telling me the same for months and I'm still struggling to keep away from him, so I know how tough it is and I don't have babies.

Just be safe darling, you and your babies, all together. Nothing else matters right now.

Love you.

xx

what?!
im sorry sweets...

*hug*
I agree with everyone your a wonderful person and agreat mother and if hes to blind to see that screw him.