So, i just had a talk with my man about some important issues. It went better than i thought it would, so i'm happy about that. Had to talk to him about the fact that i don't need to be handled with kid gloves. I'm a strong, independent woman and if i need something, i'll ask for it, instead of needing to be asked every 5 min. if everything's ok. He took it pretty well. Hopefully this gets better and i don't have to bring it up again. We shall see. Other than that, my first day as a member went pretty well. I've already met a few people, so that's a plus. Hopefully tomorrow, i'll get to meet even more.