when you find out let me know!

Flirt with every woman you find interesting or attractive or pretty. Sleep with any or all of them, a lot. It won't heal your heart, but it is distracting, and you never know...

40oz to freedom is the only chance I have to feel good even though I feel bad.

Maybe not the "safe" advice some would give, but hey, if you think it's better to burn out than fade away, go for it.

Oh, and music. Keep your chin up!

Sorry to hear you're going through that.

My answer, for what it's worth:

Time. Put lots of focus into things you've wanted to do but didn't have the time because of him/her. It can feel pretty amazing to reinvent yourself after a relationship

And as soon as you're ready, create new memories with other people to fill up the holes and replace the bitter ones.

Glad to be of help a little. I know it's a super hard time.