I can now say with all honesty, he is definitely hitting on me.
You all know how I feel about cheaters. Especially if they are married. I am totally against it.
We started out as friends when I first started. We sat next to eachother in cubes, while they figured out offices and such. He invited me to this special shoe sale, and a basic work friendship began.
An occassional lunch, a few IM's, but never anything major. I tell him of my nights out and our friendship grows. I ask why he doesn't wear his ring, he says he lost it, but it is clear that he is married.
Yesterday, we went for lunch and while out he tells me that some people in the office probably think we are having an affair. I think this is odd since I don't spend much more time with him then anyone else. Plus, I add, if I were to have an affair I would be going to a lot more concerts (since he gets tickets to every event) and said yes you would.
Flash forward to today, I was talking to him about his upcoming weekend and my visitors, and how I hope that everything goes smoothly. He had to leave the office and said to call him at 8 since we would both driving home. I call him, we discuss the situation and we are fairly close friends so he knows about my therapy and such.
And he starts asking me how he could have a threesome, and I said well you would find someone to join you and your wife. He says she won't do it, so she passes. I say well then you can't have one. And he says where does it say that he can't. And I say it is adultery.
The conversation moves on, and I talk about another person I met in the past after he had recently broke up with girlfriend and how I allowed him to kiss me and such because he had just broken up and I wanted to give him a little love since she had crushed him. And he says so hypothetically what would you do with me if I got divorced...............
What????
So I realize now I am way over my head.
It sucks because I really did like him as a friend, but I have to proceed with caution now.
It kinda scared me a little bit too.
But the reality is I dispise cheaters of all kinds.
Which is also difficult since this person was kind of a mentor for me. So, I really looked up to him.
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APR 25, 2006 07:36 PM
Hmmmm... An interesting situation. I hope you can work things out with your friend. Or at the very least set him straight.
Have a great day! 
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APR 25, 2006 08:09 PM
Wow, yeah that's tough. I agree with vegemite. Proceed with caution and try to salvage the friendship. You don't need that kind of drama. 
*hugs*
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APR 26, 2006 04:59 AM
OH MY GOD!!! hehe! Thanks for bidding! Im happy you won!
APR 26, 2006 05:23 AM
BTW I totally agree you should lay down the law with this guy! If he is unhappy in his relationship thats his choice to make! You should not allow yourself to be sucked into it. Tell him if he needs to talk about his relationship you will be there but you arent willing to be a factor in its break up!
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... and prettier, and you have better boobs than I do. 
Thanks ever so much, here's to a great 29th year for the both of us. 
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