I have a beautiful friend who's husband told her He loves her but isnt in love with her anymore. Before he laid down to take a nap. She is so stressed not sure what to do or if he is going to leave her. Cause he told her this two days ago and is still living with her. She is a strong woman yet this here has left her..not her normal fuck you self. She loves him and doesn't want him to leave. She has talk to him about getting help for them. But doesn't know what they are going to do. He said he isnt cheating on her..just that his feelings have change. I want to punch him in his balls for hurting her and then acting like nothing has changed. But she wont let me be rude or mean. And I wont cause I love her and we have been friends for 15yrs. But God I dont know what to do to help her but let her cry on my shoulder. I wish I knew the magic words to take away her pain. I am just at a loss. I've never seen my friend like this. She has always been the strong one. The one that takes no shit and now...this has left her completely different.

I know what I would do in her place. I would tell him to get the hell out and go to his parents till he could get his shit together. Four years of love, devotion and being a good wife means nothing to you. I would cuss and scream. Maybe she is stronger then me by remaining so calm even if she is heart broken. Any advise or idea on how to help my best friend?