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JULY 1, 2008 @ 06:02 AM

As a parent, you worry about how decisions you make affect your children. Over the past 8 years, I have grown accustomed to these questions which I am constantly asking myself. I have never though, until now, questioned our decision to bring new life into the world.
The fatal stabbing of 16 year-old Ben Kinsella in North London, on Sunday, was the 17th murder of a teenager in our capital this year. 17. That's nearly 3 a month. In one city. The first of these killings came just hours into the New Year.
In 2007, there were 27 murdered teenagers in London. At the rate we are going, we will hit this number in mid-September. If the number continues to grow in the same fashion, next year it will be 60. These are all people under the age of 20.

I, for one, am seriously considering leaving these shores in search of a safer and better life for my family. Unfortunately, I feel that it is not just England that is going to hell:

Washington, USA- The body of a pregnant woman was found on Saturday morning. She had been stabbed multiple times in the chest and her baby cut from her womb.

Zimbabwe- President Robert Mugabe uses torture, rape and murder as a tool to 'win' his country's 'democratic' election. His only opponent stood down because his supporters were being killed. Voters were marked with red ink, anyone without a mark was beaten and in some cases killed. The world watches and discusses a course of action. blackeyed

North Carolina, USA- A leader in the Democratic Party in the Triangle is charged in a bizarre sex crime. Sources tell Eyewitness News it was a satanic ritual that got out of hand. Arrest warrants allege Joy Johnson, a vice chair woman of the Durham County Democratic Party watched as her husband, Joseph Craig, beat and raped a female victim then kidnapped and beat another male victim with a wooden cane and a cable cord.

Europe- Racist crime is on the rise across Europe, the head of the European Union's Agency for Fundamental Rights announced in Brussels on Tuesday. There was a worrying trend of an increase in racist crimes between 2000 and 2006, and 2007 showed a similar picture, Anastasia Crickley, the agency's chairperson, said as she presented her organisation's annual report. Until 2006, the number of reported cases of racist offences rose in Austria, Britain, Finland, France, Denmark, Germany, Ireland and Slovakia. There was a slight decrease in the Czech Republic, Poland and Sweden in the 2000 to 2006 period.


It's not just crime which marks the terrible state the world is in. Society in general must be in pretty poor shape for this kind of thing to even be considered:

Los Angeles, USA- A company touts a new reality show called "Who Wants to Marry a U.S. Citizen." The show proposes televising courtship beween legal citizens and immigrants who have temporary visas. The show's investors hope the marriage of reality TV and a national obsession with immigration will make it a hit.


It makes you wonder if we are just being cruel subjecting a new generation to this.

Ok, rant over.

It seems to me, from reading various blogs here, that a lot of people had alot of sex this weekend. If this was you, congratulations. If not, HaHa. biggrin

On Friday, I put up the sex swing that Kirstie bought. I just want to say - those things are difficult. Adjusting it to the right height, her getting in it, making sure she was in the correct postion as listed in the instruction manual, making sure she didn't fall out and smash her face on the floor. It was a lot of work, but not at all bad. biggrin

Thursday is my little ones birthday, she'll be 4. She's so excited about becoming a big girl and, obviously, getting presents. On Saturday she's having a party so our house will be full of screaming kids and, worse than that, parents. Bullshit small talk aplenty. mad

I hope everyone is well.

"The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it. "
Henry David Thoreau
Comments
Miya

Miya

HOPEFUL

United Kingdom

JUL 01, 2008 09:17 AM

Doesn't it make you sick the way everyone is treating each other in the world today? Everyone needs to chill and stop stabbing, raping, hurting each other. It's sick. I'd hate to have to bring up my child in this society today.

Rah.

Anyway, good to hear the swing was fun biggrin Instruction manual and everything, what a laugh!
Oh and good luck with the party, hope the weather holds and stays beautiful like it is right now kiss

Frankus_Suicide

Frankus_Suicide

Tolleson, AZ
March 2007

JUL 01, 2008 11:20 AM

I was watching Saturday night live about to put a video game on to play until like 2 am when the announcement came on that she died..

I just remember seeing the funeral procession and the funeral. Pretty sad.

bexisrad

bexisrad

Simi Valley, CA
March 2008

JUL 01, 2008 11:33 AM

Hey you can always move where I live. Porn capital of CA.

lilli

lilli

Santa Cruz, CA
January 2006

JUL 01, 2008 06:24 PM

Hot sex rules!!!! love

Move to Santa Cruz. Please? kthx. wink biggrin

AnnaLee

AnnaLee

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

JUL 02, 2008 02:48 AM

Yes that is so true, I think that most of the time when I've been reading over the last few years I have been looking for something to fit in with my emotions, wether it's looking for another world to hide in or like you suggested about your used of Meditations to be better, stronger etc. Meditations is wonderful to have around and just pick up and read a few sections now and then to lift your spirits I think.

nightgoat

nightgoat

United Kingdom
April 2005

JUL 02, 2008 04:18 PM

I take it the sex swing wasn't what you went to Asda for?

I think unfortunately bad stuff happens pretty much everywhere and the best you can do is raise your kids with morals and standards you think will serve them well... I mean where I went to uni was a lovely little town with countryside around, but someone once got attacked with an axe at the end of my road...

My trip was amazing, thanks... Move to Chicago, it's great there... wink

nightgoat

nightgoat

United Kingdom
April 2005

JUL 03, 2008 05:22 AM

I don't think Walmart would allow that kinda thing... Shame...

Actually the children weren't so bad as I have noise reduction earphones for my ipod, it was mostly the guy in front putting his seat back on my lap the whole flight...

nightgoat

nightgoat

United Kingdom
April 2005

JUL 04, 2008 02:55 AM

Rather you than me... biggrin

tommycha

tommycha

United Kingdom
March 2007

JUL 05, 2008 02:40 AM

Hi, thanks for the compliment smile

clioandeu

clioandeu

Arcata, CA
March 2007

JUL 05, 2008 02:28 PM

If only moving made bad things stop happening. . .

The best you can do with both yourself and with kids is to make as much of it as possible into a learning experience--like showing to futility of violence or prejudice. It's the only way I can cope with this crazy world.

bexisrad

bexisrad

Simi Valley, CA
March 2008

JUL 07, 2008 08:32 AM

The fight was awesome, sorry frown Seriously, it was one of the best fights that Ive watched (Ive only started watching since like Jan).

My daughters are 6 and almost 8. Time goes so fast with them frown

clioandeu

clioandeu

Arcata, CA
March 2007

JUL 07, 2008 11:53 AM

We are mostly going to explore. I also am interested in teaching African history someday so it will be academic, as well.

Have you ever been to Costa Rica before? If not, I hear from many sources that it is a wonderful place to vacation--even if you are working. What charity are you aiding?

Miya

Miya

HOPEFUL

United Kingdom

JUL 08, 2008 02:32 AM

Hitch decided to go for gambit, iron man, joker, wolverine and x - 23 i think she's called (the clone of wolverine, like his daughter).

I wanna go see Hancock but not sure if it's cinema worthy, let me know if you go see it. Kung Fu Panda rocks, seriously, it will have you wetting your pants with laughter!

Miya

Miya

HOPEFUL

United Kingdom

JUL 08, 2008 03:03 AM

The artist we have chosen is brilliant, trust me biggrin He is pure genius, worth travelling down to brighton for! The reason Iron man and joker pop up is because he already has batman on his arm, i think it's going to look amazing biggrin
Good to hear you know your comics!

bexisrad

bexisrad

Simi Valley, CA
March 2008

JUL 08, 2008 07:58 AM

One of my best friends and her husband are way into UFC and they recently started inviting me over to watch it. They have a daughter who is in between my daughters ages so while the adults are watching the fight the kids are playing.

My oldest isnt so much like that, but the 6 year old is. She LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVES Zac Effron. LOOOOOOOOOVES him. Its frightening. My oldest has a cell phone though, her dad got it for her. surreal

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