I never treat people as objects and I've SOMETIMES pushed people aways because they wanted to be treated like objects (or so it seemed). If I ever had a one-night stand I'd jump off a bridge the next day, I'd never want anything like that. My sister used to say that I'd marry the first person I fell in love with (which didn't turn out to be true) but her words rang true in that every person, I don't care who, is so beautiful once you get past their defenses and media-induced posturing (if any) that you can't help but love them, I mean once you sit down and talk about hopes and dreams, make that contact, well life could end right there and I'd be happy.