Ecrivaine's February 02, 2013 blog

Ecrivaine likes fire emblem, salton sea, dbz, and 1984.

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FEBRUARY 2, 2013 @ 10:28 PM

this basically summarizes my thoughts for the last few hours

The problem with being a girl
is that you never know if someone is talking to you for your mind

or your mammories

And it’s not the kind of question you can ask
on a first date
or even at an intellectual conference
when someone gushes on about your genius, about how brilliant your methods and ideas seem, how they want into your head

or your pants.

And the secret giveaway
the all telling, all knowing sign
Is to drop the line

"I study body language"

And see what theirs does.

Oracle

Winnipeg, MB

September 2003

FEB 02, 2013 10:33 PM

Trouble is, with that plan, as soon as you say that, their body language will change regardless of their intentions. Trouble is that with guys, especially around your age is that sex is always in the fore front of their thoughts even if they do love you for your mind or talents. IF you sleep with a guy and the sexual tension is gone and he stays around, it’s because he loves you for you. Getting to that point is the tricky part.

countryval

HOPEFUL

USA

FEB 02, 2013 10:43 PM

I have had a problem with that as well a guy can easily change his movements to get what he wants but I have seen some women do the same as well to me... its a gamble this thing called life...keep on the bright side of things..

Oracle

Winnipeg, MB

September 2003

FEB 02, 2013 10:52 PM

I do agree that it should be easier to tell intentions but then it could become a big game, like a chess match to see who gets the “better read” in order to play games with the other. It’s better if you just do it on the down low, look for signs and react accordingly. Trouble is, if you like the person the red flags are easier to miss.

My life is interesting for sure but now I’m ready to get a routine.