then don't. You can do it.

I second. Don't do it if you do not want to.

The lure of the ex is that you think you know what to expect but this is the crux as well.

Otherwise: Read your blog entry and if you read it well you will recognize that you have already given the answer

thanks guys

its still easier said than done

I know...

I tried with my ex and it ended in a catastrophy!

Have you given in? How are you doing?