don't say that. Your life is yours to make what you want of it. When you get to where you want, you get to know you overcame something. I hope you find that, and I hope what you're dealing with is beatable.
..... so sorry to hear that.......life is always hard .....i know .....but As mentioned in a famous film "can not rain all the time"a lots of kisses and a big big hug to u !!!