Wtf is wrong with men lately? Is it THAT hard to spank an ass while screwing, or tie you up? Apparently. Fuck, Im not vanilla - and Im sooooo tired of pretending!
It can be awkward learning how hard your partner can take punishment, but you can't learn if you don't try. Maybe if you smack him it will encourage him haha
Thank you And I might just try that! Only problem is Im waaay to submissive. I have a hard time looking people in the eyes let alone smackin them to get it started
Lol weve talked about it calmly, and Ive tried telling him in the middle of it to spank my ass - and nothing. He says he just doesnt want to. Why?!?!!? Drives me nuts!
First guess is he's just not sexually exploratory or kinky. I doubt it's something deeper than that. Bummer too, crazy rough sex is fun. Dude needs to be awakened haha