I have not posted in a while. A friend on site was doing a dissertation and asked me some questions about how I saw this site , so here are my answers .
-Male
-since october 2007 , 2 and a half years
-I try to be active, I do talk to a number of people . but I have never really kept a journal . I hate opening up online. I post more often here than I do on my Livejournal.
-Well the viewing is self explanatory. I write to people because i like meeting new people. And it doesn't hurt that they happen to be cute girls .
-well the are a lot closer than the majority of adult sites. I guess that is the only way to categorize this since there is nudity. They do have a broad variety of shapes and sizes which is nice. There is still a leaning towards slim and busty but that is what sells. And that is not really the norm , but at least here the girls are allowed to show their beauty in a more well rounded individual way .
-Yes I do . I have heard some girls complain and I can see some of the truth in what they say, but as I said a lot closer than any other site out there.
-well I am not sure how I would feel if I were a women. But as a man I feel a little insecure. Simply because the women are very beautiful and I could be in better shape. I need to loose a few pounds.
-it would be a little easier on this site because people are a little more towards the norm . On this site a flaw is not seen as a deal breaker, and beauty is seen in a wider definition.
- I think I try to be honest and myself online. What would be the point of being someone else if you ever hope to meet someone who you first meet online. Oh what a tangled web ....
-said no lol
-we all judge by physical appearance. It is a mistake but it is an almost universal one. I think but expanding our views on what is beautiful we learn to see and accept what is good and interesting in more people. I think your example about a slim person being better and more interesting is the sort of thing this site is hopefully inching away from with it's broader selection of models. Presenting curvier more voluptuous non-vanilla ( pierced , tattooed, etc) ladies as well as the girls closer to the fashion magazine norm.
-hell no , but then again I am a out of shape older guy . If I am to compete I am going to use guile , charm and experience lol
-I love this site. I wish there weren't some people who make it tough for others . I have experience a bit of this myself. I wish everyone stayed happy and never left. But over all I still love it and that is why I stay .
-They rock . in may awesome and varied ways .
-We all do everytime we look in a mirror , no site forces us to . Don't blame others for your own insecurities or shortcomings.
-I really should update my blog ..hmmmm