what a freaking roller coster..... I'm moving out, we aren't breaking up just giving each other the space we need to both work on things that we need to work on. So if ya anywhere near newport news or hampton... I need a place for a few months.
I miss being on here so much... I have been home since feb 22nd and well, life is grand. 
I have had time off before the horse race begins. Done with all my traning, now I'm home sweet home and ready to start working. I officially start my job on MONDAY! I have drill this weekend and well... life every day. Feels good but then again there is so many things that need to happen around the house that I want to get done and bob wants to get done but how does that happen when i can't get his concent or help me pay for it. It's his house and yes we live together and I pay my part... maybe i did come home and expect so much but then again life wasn't on hold when i was away... or was it? So, the big question that has cause some ruckus in the house as of late, Bob and I are both divorced, and he has three children, two who come over everyother weekend and during the week. We do live together. However when the kids spend the night he feels weird about sleeping in the same bed as me. There are no other signs that we do this when we don't have the kids over, i'm fully envolved with them, cook dinners, go to their games and practices, ect. So, is this the right thing to do or does it send the message that living together is wrong. The problem i have is when we were just dating and not living together i did spend the night once when the kids were over due to living 45 min away and i feel asleep while we were watching a movie, he did climb in bed with me and try for sex. It is also in his seperation aggreement that we aren't supposed to sleep in the same living quarters while the kids are over. He doesn't follow about 98% of the rules in the damn thing so why this one? He keeps saying "you don't understand, you don't have kids" and when i asked him to explain he says " I can't" or when i ask him if he thinks that living together is wrong he says no... so... what the fuck is going on? any insight?
I have had time off before the horse race begins. Done with all my traning, now I'm home sweet home and ready to start working. I officially start my job on MONDAY! I have drill this weekend and well... life every day. Feels good but then again there is so many things that need to happen around the house that I want to get done and bob wants to get done but how does that happen when i can't get his concent or help me pay for it. It's his house and yes we live together and I pay my part... maybe i did come home and expect so much but then again life wasn't on hold when i was away... or was it? So, the big question that has cause some ruckus in the house as of late, Bob and I are both divorced, and he has three children, two who come over everyother weekend and during the week. We do live together. However when the kids spend the night he feels weird about sleeping in the same bed as me. There are no other signs that we do this when we don't have the kids over, i'm fully envolved with them, cook dinners, go to their games and practices, ect. So, is this the right thing to do or does it send the message that living together is wrong. The problem i have is when we were just dating and not living together i did spend the night once when the kids were over due to living 45 min away and i feel asleep while we were watching a movie, he did climb in bed with me and try for sex. It is also in his seperation aggreement that we aren't supposed to sleep in the same living quarters while the kids are over. He doesn't follow about 98% of the rules in the damn thing so why this one? He keeps saying "you don't understand, you don't have kids" and when i asked him to explain he says " I can't" or when i ask him if he thinks that living together is wrong he says no... so... what the fuck is going on? any insight?