NOVEMBER 29, 2012 @ 08:23 PM


I have a huge decision I know I need to make ..

So here is my dilemma .. a few nights ago, I caught my boyfriend in a lie .. he said he was going out which is fine. I was on the phone with him and he says he was going to get off the phone because he was about to be where he was going this, this was at a little after 12 am .. shortly after I would say around 1230 he is tagged in a picture of fb of him with his arm around 2 girls and a girl behind him licking his face, so right off this obviously irritated me, but to make matters worse he calls me at around 2 something in the morning and I ask how his night was (leaving out that I saw the picture) and he says it was okay and that he didn't get to the bar until 1 .. Immediate red flag was raised at that statement seeing as what I just explained further up. The next day I start asking around and I hear that has actually been hitting up girls on fb behind my back .. I have no proof of this, but I have heard this from multiple people. And there are a few other issues, he is pushing me on the school subject I want to go to school, but I can't start til spring, which is automatically going to piss him off .. In the past 8 almost 9 months we've been together I've made a lot of changes for him and now all I hear is that he is cheating .. I really don't know what to do, I can already feel my heart breaking .. Ugh. frownfrownfrown

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son_of_a_duck

son_of_a_duck

I'm lost
June 2006

NOV 29, 2012 08:33 PM

Guys suck and Facebook is awful.

TheMadHatter23

TheMadHatter23

USA
September 2010

NOV 29, 2012 08:46 PM

Dump him. He clearly doesn't care about you.

suispud1

suispud1

Dallas, TX
January 2010

NOV 29, 2012 08:50 PM

Tell him to take a hike.

ACTA

ACTA

USA
March 2010

NOV 29, 2012 08:59 PM

The answer to everything, confront his ass with the pic. Too fuckin' easy and if he gives you an excuse or 2 or 3 just remember. The maximum effective range for excuses are zero. You have to go with your gut make your choice and stick to it, if you choose to dump his ass then do it and stick with it! If you stay with him then just confront him with the pic and tell him you don't ever want to see it again and if you catch him or hear the slightest thing of a girl putting her tongue on your man or doing whatever else except a "friendly" hug then leave his ass. Oh by the way he is an idiot.... only idiots and complacent people get caught on FB about shit like that.

Maineville

Maineville

Corona, CA
February 2009

NOV 29, 2012 09:15 PM

I would save the pics and show him pictures don't lie and he can't use that photo editing shit time to bring everything out in the open why should you deny yourself of what people are saying and evidence that was presented to you in your face when you can do so much better knowing that you need to improve your life. You don't need that drama in your life just confront him catch his ass in another lie and bounce cause it isn't worth the heartache if he is going to cheat on you.

SkooterD

SkooterD

USA
August 2012

NOV 29, 2012 09:21 PM

That's to easy, make an account with a fake name fake picture etc etc. Also confront him about the picture with the two girls. Once you have the fake account set up add him and a other people who don't
know you and get more info on anything you can get.

Cheshire_

Cheshire_

HOPEFUL

Front Royal, VA

NOV 29, 2012 09:36 PM

ur too damn pretty to be lied too take it from someone that has had ALL her BF lie........If they are lying then you start to lose trust and once that happens you are miserable in the relationship oh god I sound like Dr.Phil no baby you can do better wink gorgeous wink his losskiss

Deliriumm

Deliriumm

HOPEFUL

USA

NOV 29, 2012 09:52 PM

He sucks. Why would he even lie about it if its on fb for the world to see. Don't take his crap beautiful girl. smile it may be hard but you will be way better off without him, live your life the way you choose, you deserve better

danger6996

danger6996

USA
March 2007

NOV 29, 2012 09:57 PM

Im really sorry dear

Drama

Drama

Columbus, OH
January 2003

NOV 29, 2012 10:11 PM

I'm very very sorry to hear that. I know that trust is a very tough thing to re-earn once it's been lost. I would just be as honest as possible and confront the situation head on and see where things go. Hopefully he's honest with you and you can repair whatever trust issues have come up. If not then you have your answer already. I've gone through this stuff before and it sucks, but it's always better to know now than letting anything fester.

Vayda

Vayda

SUICIDEGIRL

New York, USA

NOV 29, 2012 10:18 PM

All I have to say about him, is FUCK NOO, I'd be pissed.

Zebulingod

Zebulingod

Beaverton, OR
August 2007

NOV 29, 2012 10:33 PM

Wow, that does suck. I wouldn't stand for being treated like that. Sounds like it's time for a "come to jesus" talk. Simply confront him calmly and tell him what you know, and simply ask him to explain. If he doesn't have a good explanation (and how could he?), I think you have your answer.

No use sticking with someone who'd do that sort of thing to you.

EyesWideShut

EyesWideShut

Australia
October 2005

NOV 29, 2012 10:51 PM

Hey—my pizza is late arriving. Prioritise!

Irabrai

Irabrai

United Kingdom
August 2011

NOV 29, 2012 11:11 PM

Hes an idiot. If he's going out to hit on other girls, he isnt worth your time. You're an amazingly hot girl, he obviously doesnt have his head screwed on properly.

Also, dont change for anyone; Live life for YOURSELF, no-one else will ever care as much about you as you do. (I've stuck that in bold because its something i say to a fair few people)

it

it

Brooklyn, NY
December 2008

NOV 29, 2012 11:45 PM

You want to know if he's really cheating? Grab his phone and run to the bathroom, if he tries to kick the door down, he has someone else its that simple.whatever

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