I hope the change isn't something bad, but leading off your post with "abandoholism" (I've never heard of it before, but it makes sense) makes me think it is.

well i dont see why someone be dumb enough to leave you but if you say so

I know people like that. Must be catching.

Perhaps you should try a man (that also knows how to be a boy, when appropriate)

: ) M

Sucks... if someone abandoned you, the dude is an idiot...

^definitely!

Hmm I know some people who probably have that

I'm not above getting arrested. Say the word Ill take him out

I am a serial monogamist and have been through both beart break and heart breaking... live to love another day. And all teh better for it.

**HUGS** Hang in there, I know you'll be able to conquer this.