I've had crushes on girls that were much younger than me. Actually, I can't hardly ever even find girls that are remotely close to my age that aren't already married or engaged, so I have to crush on younger girls. I'm 28 and I most recently dated a 20 year old girl. I guess I'm a dirty old man, but who cares.

hmmm. past crushes...he was four years older when i was fifteen. when i was four or five i also had a crush on my older sisters friend who was in his twenties. i was going to marry him. (he is currently an exotic dancer in texas )
and currently.besides my husband..i dont know how old damien marley is but i have the hugest crush on him!! i dont really get crushes though. i say each to his own about the age differences in relationships. if they are in love its great.

My crushes have tended to be a difference of 8-12 years younger than me, on average. The oldest girl I was ever with was a year older than me, but that was quite a long time ago...

how come you're so gorgeous?

ummm. ...i don't get crushes very often, infact i can't honestly remember the last time i had a crush on someone.

i think age isn't that important, i mean of course it is when you're talking about those that are just too young, but once you reach 18 or so ...after that it's whatever. i try my best not to judge others, they have their lives and can make their own desicions. i mean if someone much older sees something in someone much younger, who am i to think that what they have found "isn't right".

i guess i'm rambling on, hopefully i made somse sense in that statement.

generally about 5 years in either direction when it comes to age difference.

I don't have a problem with bigger age gaps hell my cousin who is 24 is currently in a relationship with a guy who recently turned 40... that said he definitely looks alot younger.

but really as long as people are happy and no one is being taken advantage of it is none of my business.

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It's a meeting of mind body heart & soul.

I don't think it corresponds inherently to norms at all.

It is all about maturity, however.
How old is George Bush?
How old is Britney Spears?

Answer: Not old enough.


Drago

Age is just a number. For dating, I would have to say that I've dated people between 3 years older and 9 years younger.

Like Damon_Shadows said, people around my age are usually married, engaged or psycho!

As long as the person is legal age, I have no problem flirting with them. As for an actual crush though... hmm you're 11 years younger and Fractal is 12 years younger, so there you go

I think that if people have alot of stuff in common, age wouldn't be a big factor.

If an older guy can get a younger chick or vice-versa without the aid of a checkbook and a corvette, kudos to him.

when i was sixteen i spend two or three years working for less than minimum wage because i had a huge crush on a 28 year old married woman working there.
i've still never met anyone quite like her, i wish i knew how she's doing now, all i know is that she's divorced.

i'm 37 and my girl is 20! crushes? i've had them on teachers like 25 years older than me when i was in school, and some pop stars who are like 18 or whatever... yes i am a pervert. obviously.

I can't remember that long ago...suffice to say there was crushes...but on whom I know not.

crush!?

it turns out i really dont like girls. i mean, sure parts of them are decent and all that, but mostly, not so much.
last year, maybe.......but 2006 is coming, and girls are the new script lettering. pretty, but ultimately passe'.

and then again, its usually because of the festy full-butts. nothing kills a boner like a pair of crap-hammock underpants.

mark my words.

i bet youve seen the last unicorn ten million times eh eh EH!

im 29 and the damey is 22, thats not too bad i suppose.
the pup did have a chip, i called to check on him, he was returned to the owner, and all is well.my pup ran out the front door on me once, and got creamed by a jeep, fucker kept going, so i just couldnt watch it happen to another doggy. im doing my good deeds now, in hopes that ill be one of the lucky ones to make it over the bridge when the zombies come.
and seriously for that soymilk maker, just work out the shipping, or wait til i make a trip through the sticks, im up there every once in a bit.