I am currently in love with the two most amazing people... It has been a bumpy ride to get to this point and it was a test of my mental capacity but now I am in a current state of bliss.

My husband {PopSupernova}and I have been sexual for 14 years and been in a committed relationship for 6 of those years and we were married in June. He is a patient, kind, expressive, and loving individual who has sacrificed a lot to allow me to love at my full ability.

My girlfriend and I are just now beginning a relationship where my husband can be involved... not only physically but also emotionally supportive. She feels strongly about my happiness and is setting her preconceived notions of a complicated lifestyle aside to open herself up to this sort of loving environment. It is a test of faith for all parties involved but alas we are taking baby steps to make this work and we ALL are committed to making this work for a loving long term relationship.

Did I mention I love my life?

"Amy is out of surgery. The doctor said he feels confident that he got it all. The thing was the size of a basketball! He was able to save one ovary and her uterus. So that's the good news. No hot flashes just yet.

The mass was not a taratoma however, it was cancer. So, when Amy has recovered from her surgery, she will start chemotherapy.

I have not gotten in to see her yet. This is very scary, but she is in the best possible hands. While there are still a few tests to be run, the doctor is fairly certain that the treatment from here will be straight forward and manageable (whatever that means).

Again, I will let you know more as I know more. Thanks for everything."