I believe that there is someone out there for everyone and sometimes it just takes a while to find/meet them =)

First of all, I believe you should wait until you're at least 25 yrs old before you begin to think about anything serious. Most people still do know who they really are or what they really want until they have really experienced life. You should use those years to live your own life(which you seem to be doing)and find yourself first. I believe that there are are more than one person out there, who are compatible for each of us. But don't be fooled into thinking that it should be magically perfect or easy. We get this fuzzy feeling inside and we begin to think with our hearts instead of our brains and we get into trouble(there should be a safe medium). I feel that it's important to find someone who is at a point in his/her life, where they are ready and willing, to put in the work to make a relationship succeed. And most importantly, if there is no respect between two people...there really is no love. Also, remember to look at what's inside a persons heart and mind rather than his/her pretty face. that's just me though....

Yes I do believe in true love, soul mates, and that people are meant to be. I however think that it will never happen to me. I was raised by my mother, sister, and all of their female friends and got addicted to chick flicks. From my so far experience all that is a dream. I do still believe in it.... just not for myself.

Also no offense pomps00 but I believe that you need to listen to your heart more that you r brains. sure it might lead you to getting hurt a little bit more but that's what it is all about. If you listen to your brain and play the safe side how do you know that you're making the right choice instead of the logical choice? And there is most definitely a difference. Sure the logical choice is safer and you might not get screwed but you have that chance either way. If you follow your heart you have a better chance at finding your true love instead of someone that is logically sound. Not to sound too nerdy but don't be a Vulcan. Take a chance at love and fate.

True love most definately exists. My great-grandparents were the epitomy of true lovers and soulmates. I just believe that it is more difficult to find these days than in decades past and much more easily confused with lust now than with past generations. You have to follow your heart yes but you must also allow enough time for your logical side to move past the initial thrill of a new relationship and evaluate all pros, cons, and character flaws. If you give enough time to a promising relationship you can make a more informed choice about making a permanent commit. Then hopefully you will only have to make that choice once like my great-grandparents. I think that true love is less some magical sparkly arrow shot by Cupid and more time spen getting to know your partner and taking things slowly and not jumping right into the deep end of the pool. That's just my oppinion though.

I do believe in true love. As far as soul mates go, I don't think that there are 2 people who are just perfect for each other and I don't think soul mates just pertain to lovers. I think friends can be soul mates too. If you look up the definition of soul mate it talks about strong affinity and compatibility but it really is about a connection with that person and sometimes friendships can outlast and outlive and outlove any romantic relationship. I definitely think some people are meant to be together but I don't think we're all just limited to find love in one other person.

not at all.. i think you have to work at love. x

love means caring about someone more than yourself. It is a decision you have to make every second.