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FEBRUARY 2, 2010 @ 05:02 PM


How do you guys ask someone out? There's this cute fella I'd really like to ask out, but I'm crazy shy and entirely afraid to talk to people I'm attracted to. I'm awkward, and the least smooth person. What should I do?!

How do you conquer a lifetime of shyness? How do you actually talk to members of the opposite sex without alcohol or wanting to vomit?

And now for the typical MR set plug ...

Thanks for all the comments on my RTFM set currently in Member Review! And if you haven't seen it, check it out here and maybe give it some love if you like it! <3 <3 <3

It might actually be the last set I shoot. I feel like I've reached the point where I don't really need to model anymore. It might be the 5 month countdown to my 30s coming at me, but my heart/creativity just isn't in it. RTFM is a set I love and feel captures who I am, so I'd be happy leaving it as the end one. But I heart SG regardless.

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Kallyn

Kallyn

USA
April 2007

FEB 02, 2010 09:01 PM

I like to pretend I'm asking out a great bud instead of someone I'm attracted to, but really I just stutter and crash into shit. What can ya do but bite the bullet or let it slide?

noend

noend

USA
April 2006

FEB 02, 2010 09:26 PM

i never imagined you were nearing 30. You may find a new sexy self to share once yur there....
I am also terminally shy. Luckily some gals dig a guy stumbling with shyness. And this guy digs the same in gals, so why not give it a go with yur cute fella.

Gonzilla

Gonzilla

Fresno, CA
March 2009

FEB 02, 2010 09:40 PM

i hope this isnt your last shoot.. your to full of win!

ron4164

ron4164

Ponchatoula, LA
January 2007

FEB 02, 2010 09:47 PM

Ask someone out? I don't! bok
Geez you are too beautiful!
I really love that last set you did.
Hope you're doing well Posh. kiss kiss love

IndieBuddhist

IndieBuddhist

Oshawa, ON
April 2009

FEB 02, 2010 10:02 PM

Just ask if he wants to get some coffee / tea.

Isobel_

Isobel_

Finland
February 2005

FEB 02, 2010 10:19 PM

You're so beautiful.

obd

obd

Venice, CA
June 2003

FEB 02, 2010 10:19 PM

I'll leave you this advice, since you said it was shyness with a fella: Guys are easy, he'll be pleased. Ask him somewhere you are really comfortable (restaurant, bar, museum whatever). If he says no he is either already involved or a head case and not worth the effort.

Off to look at the set (after I'm done catching up with everyone else). One last thought: in a lot of ways, 30 was my most dreaded birthday but it turned out to be one of the best nights of my life. My 30's have been a blast - no moping, as my grandpa always told me - getting older is much better than the alternative. It only gets better.

ranza

ranza

Denmark
January 2009

FEB 03, 2010 12:01 AM

If i were you i would dress up as hulk hogan and ask him out. It's fun and a great way to conquer your shyness biggrin

hollow_jones

hollow_jones

San Francisco, CA
August 2005

FEB 03, 2010 01:12 AM

As for guys... we're easy and definitely flattered when picked up. I only met you once and if he's anything like me (a heart beat, brain and male genitalia) he'll turn into a puddle when you look at him. I don't have a problem with talking to people, even cute girls, but you made me nervous as hell...could of been the zombie make-uplove

The key is to practice all day, have small talk with as many people as possible, the girl at the coffee counter, person on the bus, cute waiter, etc, warm up, you stretch and walk before you runwink
And then when you see him talk to him like everyone else

vampiresoldier

vampiresoldier

Oakland, CA
March 2004

FEB 03, 2010 01:38 AM

I used to be like that and found out that the best way to beat shyness is to just pretty much go talk to the person, start a conversation and ask him if he wants to continue talking over coffee. biggrin

Coccinelle

Coccinelle

HOPEFUL

United Kingdom

FEB 03, 2010 06:49 AM

you looks fantastic love i love your new haircut! you looks so cute!

bendingunit23

bendingunit23

Canada
April 2005

FEB 03, 2010 07:04 AM

Your interesting, intelligent, cute and I bet you smell nice too. You've hosted video game shows, and jumped out of perfectly good airplanes. Just start with something simple, coffee, beer, bacon. It sucks being shy, but you seam to be able to over come it well, if only for short times. Once he gets to know you you'll have a fantastic time together.

good luck kiss

Peck

Peck

Spain
April 2009

FEB 03, 2010 08:13 AM

love your new set. I miss more sets from you biggrin You're great!

redheadedleague

redheadedleague

Pinole, CA
September 2003

FEB 03, 2010 08:23 AM

Wait, shyness, this is my last set... don't go Salinger on us.

as for asking the guy out, just ask him if he wants to do something (eat/coffee/rockclimb). He'll figure it out.

d20

d20

San Francisco, CA
September 2003

FEB 03, 2010 10:56 AM

Put boobs in face. It worked with me, right?

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