Oh goodness... I don't know what to tell you. I've always been told that guys are always ready and willing to go! I guess you could see if there's something that's really bringing him down. Maybe his new job is really stressing him out? Then again, when I'm stressed, sex usually helps. Maybe he's got seasonal depression. Maybe this, maybe that. You should look into it.

that guy is the dumbest man on the planet. i would fly you to los angeles i want to have sex with you that bad!!! he needs to wake up dammit!!

Guys are good at taking a good, sure thing (at least sure for now) for granted. Also, stress will take a guy's mind off of sex. I know that in relationships where the person is always around and I've been busy, my interest has suffered.

Guys fantasize about women initiating and beating down the door to have sex with them, but what many of us really want is for you to initiate when we are ready, that is, those times when we would otherwise initiate anyway. Which doesn't make any sense and is generally whacked out. But seems to be true in my experience.

If y'all are doing the fairly serious thing or on the track to it, or even if you just want to have sex/intimacy with him on an ongoing basis, talk to him about it. You can just ask "Is everything okay? because you don't seem interested lately. If you need space, that's cool, but let me know what's going on, maybe I can help. . . " and things of that nature. Since men are supposed to be turgid horndogs all the time, we're a bit touchy about the fact that sometimes we're not exactly, so don't make him feel like you're salty with him about it or like you're displeased. Just treat it like you would if you found him all mopey.

Well that's my 14.75. Hi!

I have no idea what he is thinking. maybe he is not feeling well right now, but he should at least tell you. He might be stressed, but nothing seems to help me get rid of stress better than a little release.

If not maybe you need to look for someone else.

Rejection of any kind sucks when you are in a relationship , I hope you can work through this problem , if not then it might be time to move on , even though it is a shity time to do something like that during the holidays

feel like coming down to new mexico? AAHHH FUCKIT THERE I GO!!!

amy! prob best to comment back to london in her own journal. thats how people tend to read replies around here!

yay for going pink
and yes being rejected sucks