SuicideGirl: Peaches
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Peaches I don't always smile because I'm happy, but because I'm strong :)

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DECEMBER 5, 2011 @ 11:24 AM


So now i finally have my promotion at work as a Pet Training Instructor and I LOVE IT!!!!! I get to work with all sorts of dogs and teach new things and set my schedule biggrin I just wish that the pet parents that signed up for the class would put a little extra effort into the class because sometimes they look like they don't even want to try. Plus I get to take my dog to work!!!! <3 <3 <3

Almost done with my prereqs for my PA program! I am only one semester away from finishing my Medical Assisting program and hopefully I find a job soon after graduating so I can get my hours out of the way and apply for the PA program soon. I am so excited!!! biggrin

I have started looking for a home again and it only reminded me of why I stopped frown . I calculate the payments and they seem reasonable. I pay $1400 for my one bedroom apartment with a loft and now that I will have to renew my lease it will be possibly $50 more :/ which i'm not looking forward to. So by finding a home at the most of $220,000 or less I am able to pay what I pay now if not maybe less for a 3 bedroom maybe 2 bath home compared to a one bed one bath apartment frown . I don't care if its a condo as long as the payments are fixed and affordable! BUT.... yes, here comes the but tongue.... The loan is an issue frown . I tried to get pre-approved my Citibank with Julian and our credit is good but we don't make enough which brings us to a high debt. He makes good money I don't, he is full time, i'm part time, his only debt is a $400 car payment and mine are minor credit card of >$100. But since we don't make THAT much ( I would actually like to say "I" don't make that much) they are only offering us a loan of $77,000 frown Booo.... I cannot buy anything with that, if anything maybe a car but I don't plan on living in a car :/ .

What I don't understand, is if I have been living in an apartment for almost 4 years now, an been paying up to $1400 on a monthly basis, why can't they cut me a break and just give me a loan where I can make payments of almost the same or less? My mom tells me to wait until I become a MA and make enough to qualify for a higher loan but I was kinda hoping to get that done sooner but I guess I have no choice.

I have been sketching out my next tats smile my art makes me feel better about life :} however, one of them will be on my right forearm, and therefor I can't tat it on myself because I am right handed. So I have been looking for artists and it's hard to find one that knows what I want. I want to get a cracked glass heart and because I have tiny arms, it has to be less than 4" all around. Maybe you guys can help me out with a design? biggrin Msg me with a sketch if you have the time and would like to help out smile

Family wise, what can I say.... Unstable as usual. Although my sister is in Mexico we still get calls from relatives complaining about her behavior. She has become violent now. She was starting to date a drug dealer :S and even younger kids. She would like to come back before Christmas but I don't know how that will go and what to expect after her return. Her kids have been asking for her but they seem happier and healthier since she has been gone. I truly hope things change and we can help her and do something for her because I want her and her kids to be happy. I'm tired of worrying and being mad and depressed all the time. I want to enjoy life and so does the whole family. Hopefully this new year brings us hope and opportunities to become better people and a better family and we can grow together instead of apart.

My Dad lost his job. He was fired due to a misunderstanding and now they won't give him his job back. He says they just want to hire a younger generation because that way the company doesn't have to pay for benefits and pays lower wages and all that good stuff. So now he is interviewing for different companies but I think that since he is an MD he can actually hold consultations in his own office and just write out prescriptions for meds. Hopefully things work out for him as well.

Over all, i'm staying positive. We got our Christmas tree and the kids jumped with joy. We have a home, a car, a job, food and a bonding family. Hopefully you are all enjoying it as much as I do smile

Happy Holidays!!!!!!

kiss Peaches kiss

XOXOXO



Comments
Casiopea

Casiopea

SUICIDEGIRL

Colombia

DEC 05, 2011 11:49 AM

Congrats for your new job! Sounds amazing! smile
And hope everything else goes better soon! xo

jman76

jman76

Parlier, CA
March 2004

DEC 05, 2011 02:15 PM

Hope you do great at your new job.

Martyn

Martyn

Germany
May 2005

DEC 05, 2011 07:34 PM

Wish you great fun and also great success in your new job, and that you have a great x-mas time ... but there are still more than two weeks. wink kiss

ron4164

ron4164

Ponchatoula, LA
January 2007

DEC 05, 2011 09:03 PM

Hope the new job goes well! smile

HeartBaker

HeartBaker

Fresno, CA
October 2007

DEC 05, 2011 09:40 PM

Now days the prices of rent or buying a place make me cringe. Maybe because it's so damn expensive here

legman

legman

Portland, OR
February 2006

DEC 06, 2011 12:14 AM

"So now i finally have my promotion at work as a Pet Training Instructor and I LOVE IT!!!!! "

awesome!!
i work at a doggie-day-care! doggies are so fun!!biggrinbiggrin

" He was fired due to a misunderstanding and now they won't give him his job back. He says they just want to hire a younger generation because that way the company doesn't have to pay for benefits and pays lower wages and all that good stuff"

mad $@#@# pricks! sounds familiar!

kiss

jaywailer

jaywailer

Long Beach, CA
April 2008

DEC 06, 2011 07:42 PM

Hey chica,

You should go to a mortgage lender/broker to get pre-approved, never go to a bank, especially Citibank! Trust me, I have had my RE license for 20 years. You'll get better rates and loan programs. Also, for sure start with a condo, you can always move up!

peace, jay

nikonphoto80

nikonphoto80

Lexington, KY
December 2004

DEC 11, 2011 03:08 PM

Sounds like a really fun job.

I hope at some point you will be abele to get a home loan, homes are so much more money where you are at, mine was only 135k in a nice area of town, but Lexington Ky is a lot cheaper place to live,

That is what is great about art, it helps to heal the soul.

I really hope your sister can change her lifestyle and get away from bad people like that.

I really hope things get better for your dad, he could always get a layer, but it might not be worth it.

Code_Name_Ozz

Code_Name_Ozz

Rapid City, SD
January 2009

DEC 17, 2011 10:50 PM

Sounds Groovy.

Rosetta

Rosetta

SUICIDEGIRL

Mexico

DEC 21, 2011 05:35 PM

I hope everything goes well smile

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