PICS
soo i have some stuff on my mind....
i noticed almost all my dating life, that any guy i been with someone has something negative to say about them... I typically date different walks of life.. the person i make my boyfriend is the person that some how caught my interest. its not always the same type of guy.....
now a lot of my guys friends, and some girls. either before during or after have something negative to say about how they look.....
I dont date ugly ppl. but they r not all models.
I am so sick of hearing comments i feel like no one is ever good enough for me according to these ppl..... now i know maybe for the most part a few of those guys r jealous and prob wanna be w me.. but what about the rest.... why is it always someone saying u can do better. or you are too pretty for him, why were u with him......
i already have my own insecurities and i dont think im as great as ppl make me out to be....
i also tend to see the hotter the guy the more likely all it is is sex and no relationships...
the guys that r average are the ones i settle for, and the real ugly dork old and ppl soo not even close to being my type are all wanting to be w me.
i dont get it.. but back to the issue..... why does everyone have an opinion about all my guys.. and why does it bother me so much??
these ppl r making it so hard for me to figure this out....
why do i let it effect my decisions?
is it my low self esteem that makes me not able to keep the hot guy? is it that keeps me only w the average guy??
what is real and what is made up??
i noticed almost all my dating life, that any guy i been with someone has something negative to say about them... I typically date different walks of life.. the person i make my boyfriend is the person that some how caught my interest. its not always the same type of guy.....
now a lot of my guys friends, and some girls. either before during or after have something negative to say about how they look.....
I dont date ugly ppl. but they r not all models.
I am so sick of hearing comments i feel like no one is ever good enough for me according to these ppl..... now i know maybe for the most part a few of those guys r jealous and prob wanna be w me.. but what about the rest.... why is it always someone saying u can do better. or you are too pretty for him, why were u with him......
i already have my own insecurities and i dont think im as great as ppl make me out to be....
i also tend to see the hotter the guy the more likely all it is is sex and no relationships...
the guys that r average are the ones i settle for, and the real ugly dork old and ppl soo not even close to being my type are all wanting to be w me.
i dont get it.. but back to the issue..... why does everyone have an opinion about all my guys.. and why does it bother me so much??
these ppl r making it so hard for me to figure this out....
why do i let it effect my decisions?
is it my low self esteem that makes me not able to keep the hot guy? is it that keeps me only w the average guy??
what is real and what is made up??
MAY 23, 2012 09:32 PM
MAY 23, 2012 10:03 PM
MAY 23, 2012 11:30 PM
MAY 24, 2012 01:13 AM
MAY 24, 2012 06:04 AM
MAY 24, 2012 06:45 AM
MAY 24, 2012 07:45 AM
first off...thanx for the add, sexy!!!
i also have this problem. my friends always say im too pretty for someone but what the hell does that mean or matter? if the guy treats you well and shows respect, that should be what really counts. of course looks are an initial attraction but there have been many guys i talk to that are friggin gorgeous but are the dullest i've ever met. but the ones who aren't "models' are the most fun and seem to treat me better. you do what makes you happy! 
MAY 24, 2012 10:10 AM
MAY 24, 2012 11:24 AM
