SuicideGirl: Papina
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Papina PAPINA: Miwok name meaning "vine growing around an oak tree."

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AUGUST 12, 2008 @ 03:37 PM

Ok, I don't know about anyone else, but I'm gonna throw this out there. I get really agitated w/ the fake bisexual girls or the ones thatare just curious & just fuck w/ your head. I mean they make out w/ you, they flirt, give you their number & whatever-but aren't really down. This is very frustrating to me, since I can't seem to find an actual hot lesbian or bisexual girl-only the straight ones that put on a really good act. First off, it's already really hard for me to meet women that I'm attracted to already, much less try & flirt or pick them up-I really don't think I need the monkey wrench thrown into the mix of not being able to figure out their actual orientation as well.

It happened yet again last night. I hit on hot girl, she makes out w/ me, we exchange numbers, proceed to send a couple texts right then, I'm trying to pick her up for the night, & then she goes home w/ my old fuck buddy(who's a guy). Now, I'm pretty wasted during this process, so I am a bit bleary on the details-but my other buddy has refreshed my blackout w/ the blow-by-blow so ok. So, he informed me that she wasn't even interested to begin w/ & that my old fuck buddy her were just trying to get alone together & I just wasn't aware. That's fine, but what's embarrassing to me is that I wasn't aware that she was just pretending w/ me so I didn't know to just back off. It's very confusing for us bisexuals to pick out anymore who's legit & who's just pretending. It seems that its become very fashionable now to be bisexual. WTF? confused confused confused confused confused confused confused confused confused mad
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Beau

Beau

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

AUG 12, 2008 04:16 PM

yeah... I could see where your coming from. I know a lot of girls would makeout with me. Would they come home for some REAL action??? .... Never....

hummmm grrrrr

I to am very very picky and usually evens up they really arent bi or lesbian at all.
Usually rather dissapointing. lol. blackeyed

Lashes

Lashes

United Kingdom
February 2008

AUG 12, 2008 06:41 PM

I once dated a girl who was 'bisexual'... we'd make out, have sex, whatever, BUT she wouldn't take it to the next level because she "couldn't see herself ever settling down or being in a relationship with a woman". whatever

ron4164

ron4164

Ponchatoula, LA
January 2007

AUG 12, 2008 08:27 PM

Whoa. Dating girls is even tough for girls! biggrin
Sorry that happened to you sweetie.
Take care ok. kiss kiss

northsider

northsider

Chicago, IL
October 2004

AUG 12, 2008 08:29 PM

You gotta hang out at some lesbian bars. When Kinto, his wife, and I were walking back from Salome's burlesque show we went past a place on Broadway with no fewer than two really cute hipster girl couples making out on the sidewalk and they were definitely not faking it for attention from guys.

Papina

Papina

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

AUG 13, 2008 02:01 AM

Ah, yes, but I am very picky w/ my women & I always wind up feeling like a pedafile when looking @ these yiounger hipster girls......dunno.....0.
blackeyed blackeyed

PrairieDog

PrairieDog

Chicago, IL
June 2005

AUG 20, 2008 09:44 PM

I hear the same complaint from a lot of bi-women. For some reason, most of the girls I end up dating are bi, and all of them have complained about the difficulty of finding other girls to play with. There's lots of fakes out there (like you said), and most of the lesbians hate bi girls, or think they're "just confused". All of them have also said that they can't figure out women, and that girls are more crazy than guys, so sucks for them, but in a perverse way, it makes me not feel so bad. biggrin

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