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NOVEMBER 29, 2012 @ 07:45 PM


I'm having complications with a guy. Any advice will do. Not that I will for sure take it, but I'm open to hear it. So I've been with a boyfriend for the past few months. Everything was pretty great. last week we got in a big fight. Now he is gone and says he needs space. I gave him that. But when is to much space enough. And he still says I'm his girlfriend. But why the hell is he acting so weird!? And super immature .Should I just give up and get over him?? Mind you I really fell for this one, so not as easy as it sounds. Or should I keep up with the space be cool and work it out??? And I know in the end it's really up to me, so I don't want to hear that one. I just want to hear other opinions. Thanks<3

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Gunner

Gunner

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

NOV 29, 2012 07:52 PM

If he didn't say a word to you, what would his actions be telling you? I'd make your choice based on that.

snowmiser

snowmiser

United Kingdom
July 2012

NOV 29, 2012 07:56 PM

make up and give it another run. no sure why i'm saying that but im convinced its right...smile

Oakley

Oakley

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

NOV 29, 2012 07:56 PM

Thanks that helps a bit to think of it that way!<3 my mind has just been all foggy with what's going on, plus life in general.

Oakley

Oakley

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

NOV 29, 2012 07:58 PM

Actions do speak loudersmile for some reason I new it would help a little putting this up

R3X

R3X

USA
April 2008

NOV 29, 2012 08:01 PM

If he's keeping contact and initiating most of it despite the space then I'd say based on my experiences, things are relatively OK. However, taking a week-long break from seeing you because of one fight seems like overkill.

huminal

huminal

USA
January 2012

NOV 29, 2012 10:20 PM

just because you feel that horrible feeling in your chest doesnt mean he carved his name into it...everyone feels that...things are more simple than it seems...if he wanted you...he would be there...if this is a routine he's either lonely or wants sex...unless during the fight you did something fucked up and instead of apologizing you just tried to explain your reasons for doing what u did...trust is earned...not given...communication is key with trust...if communication is shitty...u can't trust them...that logic has never been proven wrong to me

jman76

jman76

Parlier, CA
March 2004

NOV 29, 2012 10:56 PM

Well getting into a big fight can be bad and you need some time to cool off. But there is a time to come back and talk things through. If it been long time like a week. That's too much. He has to talk things through. I hope things get better for you.

GiniColorful

GiniColorful

Panama
November 2011

NOV 30, 2012 04:05 AM

I think that after a big fight, people need to talk again, because in the heat of the fight peple say stuff that they really doesnt feel.

Fresno

Fresno

Brazil
June 2012

NOV 30, 2012 04:10 AM

guys don't deserve our sincerity, affection or love

DizzyNight

DizzyNight

HOPEFUL

San Francisco, CA

NOV 30, 2012 04:39 AM

How much space did you have him? but, if it's only been a few months I think you should leave if he doesn't want to reconcile.

elfrockstar

elfrockstar

USA
February 2009

NOV 30, 2012 05:22 AM

People can be strange creatures sometimes. Seems like he may have been spooked a little. I always find the best thing is communication. I hope for the best though smile

SonnyDisco

SonnyDisco

Portland, OR
February 2004

NOV 30, 2012 08:20 AM

The times when relationships are the best are the beginning. The time where you want nothing more than to be with your new partner. Nothing else matters except for the time spent together. If this guy wants space this early in the relationship, you need to bail it. It's one thing when a new relationship moves fast and one of or both of the parties feel it needs to slow down a bit to see it take place, but space a few months in??? No bueno.

theYerg

theyerg

Charlotte, NC
October 2004

NOV 30, 2012 02:39 PM

if he is immature now, its not going to change. and if he says he needs his space on top of being immature and weird, that basically means that he doesn't have the balls to call it quits. if the fight was something petty, space is an overreaction. if it was about something that could be a dealbreaker, consider the deal broken. guard your heart, you only get one.

Zebrah

Zebrah

HOPEFUL

Columbus, OH

NOV 30, 2012 04:49 PM

<3

PureEvuLL

PureEvuLL

Pittsburgh, PA
November 2004

DEC 02, 2012 12:55 PM

I hope you can work it out but if this happened this soon into it you may want to move on.

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