well first if you like the city then stay there and try to find your place there...if you dont like and you went there only for this person you better return to your parents place because if you stay longer where you are you can hate all there everything!

one i chamge the country for a person and after couple of years the relationship was over and i was there alone!! i decied to retunr to my country

the situation is hard for you i know it very well but i know that you can survive this experience

youre very welcome if you need something else please let me know i would be here to help if i can .)

The ending of something that was not meant to be gives rise to better relationships in the future. Know that there are thousands of great guys out there that will love to hang out with you and treat you like you deserve to be treated and perhaps one of them will be "the one." Get out and meet people, put a smile on your face and you will be feeling better in no time.

It takes about a year living in a new city before it really feels like home - keep busy and it will fly by.
xoxo

when I move to Columbus you can hang out with me!

PS. I'm from upstate NY too and moving to big bad OH.
I assure you its not for a boy though

Sorry I can't give you any relationship advice. But as far as living in a new city, get to know the people there. Whether it's at work,school,etc. I've lived away from home more than once in my life so I'm used to being away from home. You just gotta find out where you fit in.

I would say finding a good book or even perhaps some sorta exercise routine to get into would help be it running or biking, something where you can put on music and get in tune with your body. As for the new city part? I would say probably find a good coffee shop to hang out in and perhaps meet some friends that way? Cleveland is only 3 hours from me and I have a college friend there so I will certainly come visit

I think time is really the only cure. Let yourself be sad for a while, you have a right to it. I really don't think there's an easy way to 'get over' a broken heart (short of drinking yourself into a stupor, and don't do that!). You just have to outlast it.

Then, get out, meet people, start over. I know it's hard, especially being in a new place where maybe you don't know too many people, but you can do it. Force yourself, if you have to.

And if you don't have any particular reason to be in Cleveland... can you pick up and move somewhere else? Somewhere you've always wanted to live? Would help you not having to think about that person so much!

check the area group on here. its usually a good place to find some decent people. getting to know the city will also help you get over the guy. getting over him could be tough, but consider perhaps that he got you there then screwed shit up, that might help. Its a rough situation. I moved back to my home town to be with the love of my life. the week I got my job here, she passed away. Now I'm as alone as can be even surrounded by people I know. I'm relearning the city after being gone for ten years, and I'm trying to get the local SG group to do stuff so I can have a group of friends who won't judge me quite so much.

Best of luck to you.

--Z

Time is the only thing I can think of. New city cant help. Find people on here and try to meet new people. Which can be hard given the slump of said broken heart. Come down and visit sometime though. I'm having a kinect party soon.
Hope you find that light again soon girl.

can you go back or no? My advice is to get out and have fun and try and get your mind of it. I live near cleveland so if you ever want to have a beer with someone hit me up.

It's pretty much what everyone else already said time. And you should keeping busy. You don't wanna sit around alone with your thoughts. It's also ok to be selfish now really focus on you. I'm not far from cleveland if you ever want to hang out

You hit the nail on the head with having to learn from mistakes.
However a lot of people claim to have learnt but quickly follow the statement up with an "Oh but..." excuse.
Admitting you got it wrong and believing it, is actually quite hard for a lot of people.
Be pissed about it, be sad about it, so long as those feelings and that train of thought is only strengthening your resolve to never let it happen again.
Like the saying goes - "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me."

We'll first off you are never alone, not when you have SG.
We are a living breathing thing that will follow you where ever you are. :}

As a person that knows how a broken heart feels like, I sympathize for you.
I almost did make the decision to move away from family and friends to meet a girl from SG.
Things feel apart before it happened, two days before. However the pursuit of going to travel to that state
that I've never been to before hadn't changed just because of her.
AND so... maybe there was other great things other than the main focus; the relationship. I realized that after the heavy blow but I did see it through.
Perhaps there's more than just one person out there in Cleveland for you, perhaps there's fun or business
for you there. You could find some kind of connection out there, but try not to quit.

I have plans to goto Ohio soon, and truth be told I've always wanted to get to know you as a person.
I'm open to meeting new people, so if you want to make things happen just get to know me. It'll be fun
Nessy *hugs*
-SMK