I think monogamy is reinforced to us by antiquated social conventions that having a truly open relationship is difficult to most people. However, if you're able to have a polyamorous relationship wherein both parties agree and respect the parameters of said relationship then you may reach a level of happiness and understanding few may ever achieve in the confines of a rigidly-structured, monogamous relationship...
I agree monogamy is not natural, I think we all have urges to step outisde the confines of a monagamous relationship now and then. I'm not sure how well I or my partner would cope with being in an open relationship though. It sounds good in theory being able to see other people but surely you would have to have some boundaries? If you could make it work and both people were comfortable with it I think it could be great, but it could just as easily lead to further problems.
I would hope so but be safe and aware any way ok.I'm very sure people would kidnap you right away if they had the chance.
(That movie "Taken" did not make me paranoid ok.Stuff happens,it's a crazy world)....in fact go home and lock the doors right now so I know things are ok over there.DO IT!! .hmph.