thank you so much sweetheart!

Always feel free to, I hope you're holding up the best you can.

Again, I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. But you are such a tough cookie, and it is going to be okay. You'll be in my thoughts, beautiful.

Argh. For what it's worth, you have my sympathy and disembodied electronic moral support.

Do you what you need to do for your sanity and stability, and everything else will work itself out, eventually.

I'm sorry to hear it, u 2 always seemed like a sweet n cute couple... I actually gasped outloud when I read that first line.

That's why I want to grow up to be one of those "floating brains in a eerily lit jar" featured in so many bad sci-fi movies, because in addition to the free Theremin, I'd be a shoo-in for one of those sweet advice column writing jobs.

That almost certainly works better than "Uncognitive Savage", which sounds like either some really crappy energy drink marketed to bikers or aging gay porn stars, or "What The Hell Is Wrong With You People?", which would be my personal column name choice.

You're most welcome in these strange parts I just wrote you about.

I was just boppin around, as I'm prone to do once in a while when I came across a post re: you, and clicked.

I know there's nothing a strange stranger can say that would make anything the slightest bit better but I still just want to say sorry for you. Both of you really. That sucks. I can only imagine what you guys were like in person but you always seemed like such a great couple. Sorry things didn't work out.

Hang in there and take good care of yourself, a lot of people here love you and are pullin for you.

All the best,
Chain

I think that is a fantastic plan. I've been through some rough breakups. Sometimes I think the short-term of an amicable breakup is harder, because you have lots of negative feelings and nothing to aim them at. Long term, though, I think they're much much healthier and better for all involved, but it's really hard to feel this hurt and not have anything to legitimately lash out at.

Yoga might help... anything that will help you go inward constructively, and allow you think and heal while dealing with the negative emotions. I'm not a believer of the chakras and all that jazz, but I do know that a quiet, steady yoga practice makes me feel more positive and think carefully about myself.

Know that I am here for you, if you need me. I'll only be a state away.

I'm sorry... I know it's hard.

There's not much to say, except that it WILL get easier. I really, really promise.

((hug))

I'm so sorry. I wish there were a simple English expression that better conveyed condolence, but "sorry" seems to be what there is.

Not knowing any specific details, but making certain not unreasonable assumptions, I believe I can say that I fell into a very similar situation back in March: four years in, a big move on the horizon, and a very abrupt ending.

I think amicable endings are harder. At the terminus of a bad relationship you can burn up all those years of feelings in anger. When there's still love but there's not going to be the kind of love you both hoped for, there's all this emotion with no place to put it. You just have to carry it around by yourself until time erodes it to a manageable weight. And when you're so deep in your own head, time moves so very, very slowly. I'm so sorry.

It's good that you have family to lean on. I wish you all the best, and the same to Angus.

I hope you may hurt no longer and no worse than you have to, and that you may never hurt so much again.

I'm so sorry. *hugs*

Yep. The only thing I can tell you is that the pain gets less over time (I know you already know that). Take really good care of yourself in the meantime.