why is doing the right thing sometimes the hardest thing in the world? it is so easy to go with your natural defense mechanisms and make the same mistakes over and over. we all have baggage programmed into us from child hood, that is what spookys friend from l.a. said last night and i think she is right. it was really great getting to hang out with her. she is super smart. i love getting to know people that make you think. i have to sign off now too much work to do. -missy