To see you with that Strap On;
SO actually turns me on,
in a complete heterosexual way !!

I am a Flirt; of course, I am a Leo as well, so there lies
a blissful combo !!

You seem as tho you'd make a great Flirt !!
You're so articulate w/ your words !!

You Never Know, Unless You Try !!



~ Richard

So hot beyond words.

I rarely look at the flirting as something for myself but, at risk of sounding egocentric, a potential benefit to the recipient in terms of bestowing upon them some confidence and overall good vibes.
A sharing thing, really.

I don't think you can truly look back and say you never flirted because I think some flirting is done unconsciously.

I find it hard to believe that you've never flirted. I mean those damn eyes, the cheekbones, that wicked smile

You may not have intended to flirt, you may not have even realized you were flirting, but I'm betting someone was sure thinking is she flirting with ME?!?

I was never any good at flirting, so I quit trying.....I don't think the girls ever took me seriously and I was looked at as a good friend or brother type guy. Which did little for my ego or my dating schedule.

Oh well....it is what it is and I'm satisfied with that.

Hey, I was thinking the other day....do you have any idea or guesses as to how many images of you have been taken over the last few years?

I'd love to see you get back into some of your self portraits.....I've always loved them and you seem to have a knack for capturing yourself....sometimes even better than other photographers.

I'll look forward to those self ports.

I forgot to comment on the above photos.....you'll have to excuse me, as I passed my 50th Bday last Oct. and a bit of rust must be forming on my steel trap of a mind.

Anyway, these are great photos as always. From the photos at least, it looks like you are fairly at ease with some of the "pushing the envelope" photos. Or, it could be that you're such a good model that you're making it seem that way....either way, I always like you in stockings and appreciate the "tease" factor of photo #3.

SOOOO Hot!!

the way i see it, flirting is a way of playing with energy between people. I actually find it a safe, yet juicy way of communicating, and even sharing affection. i couldnt possibly connsumate all of my flirts, nor would i want to. However, the flavor of the energy created by flirting is something i occasionally find delicious. If you dont like the flavor, by all means, don't flirt, but at least give it a taste before you decide. a caveat, though, i have lousy boundaries.

I think a lot of people flirt to get attention. However, some people flirt in order to make others feel good about themselves. I think most flirting is harmless and is part of being human. However, men and women tend to think about flirting very differently, mainly, I suppose because of cultural norms. Interesting blog!

I think you're right not to flirt, it is safer and kinder to be honest. Flirting is fun, but leads to confusion, generally. I don't think you're missing out on anything.

Flirting is fun, but you have to be careful. We boys can easily be led astray.

A long time ago, I saw Charo on the Tonight Show. I think Maclean Stevenson was the guest host. When she came out and sat down in the chair, she looked over at Ed and flirted with him. Maclean knew what was going on and he commented on it, to the effect that, in Hispanic culture (she's from Spain), it's OK for a married woman to flirt, as long as she flirts with _everyone_. Only if she flirts with one man will her husband then get concerned. You could apply this to your guy. If he flirts with _all_ of the women at a party, he's OK.
If he starts flirting with only one other, then you can demand that he knock it off.
I like the pix!!

re: flirting - you say it damn well yourself.

i mean, that's exactly what it is, when there's no endgame involved. and there's plenty, i mean plenty, of flirting that happens with no endgame planned or involved other than that "short spurt of self validation" - because i mean, what's wrong with that?

you should give it a shot.