SuicideGirl: Mantis
suicidegirl

Mantis is the only organism in the animal kningdom with one ear

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MARCH 11, 2011 @ 09:36 PM


I hate people who think they have haters. Ironic huh?
Don't hate.
<nerd laugh>
For real though, if everyone is 'hating' on you it most likely doesn't mean that you're justthatawesome...It just means that you probably suck.
Hard.
Need proof? Okie dokie:
I used to think I had haters. Then I did a little soul searching (really, just a little, this topic is not that deep) and realized that I was angry and sad. It was to the point that it was making my outsides less attractive too. I did a little spring cleaning (yoga, volunteering and a move) and ~surprise!~ you guessed it. No more 'haters'.

People aren't as petty as most might think (romantic warfare and teenagers excluded). Most people are glad to see others succeed. It gives them something pleasant to be a part of and something nice to look at. People like bright and shiny things. I think this might go back to hunter/gatherer times when the success and physical attributes of one group member meant increased advantages for the group. That could be a real thing or complete bull b.t.w. because it just entered my brain.
You're maybe wondering what brought this on. In a nutshell, sometimes you have to say, "Excuse me. I like you but you may not treat me this way." No biggie, right? Not this time. I was accused of 'hating'. I laughed my ass off and gave some thought to why some suck more than others.

*Self-awareness* <= Important.
Anyway, speaking of self-awareness my blogs really are dumb as shit haha. That's okay.
Also, I want a tattoo of diatoms.
Comments
hooeylewis

hooeylewis

Cornwall, ON
July 2010

MAR 11, 2011 09:40 PM

wow could not agree more. This is one of the best blogs i have ever read.

Tactical

Tactical

I'm lost
August 2009

MAR 11, 2011 09:50 PM

Man I hate you lol, pretty funny there at the end

Padre

Padre

Tolleson, AZ
March 2007

MAR 11, 2011 10:32 PM

I'm one to think that blogs can be whatever is on your mind. Sometimes I was philosophical and sometimes I bullshit.
But it is true, too many haters really just means you're a pretty shit individual. We're told to both look out for others but at the same time look out for yourself first. People who balance both may not be the most interesting people in the world but certainly loved and appreciated

DiamondsAndGuns

DiamondsAndGuns

Santee, CA
September 2006

MAR 11, 2011 11:02 PM

Very True!!

ShelbyAnn

ShelbyAnn

HOPEFUL

Redlands, CA

MAR 11, 2011 11:07 PM

Amen

Persephone

Persephone

SUICIDEGIRL

Western Sahara

MAR 11, 2011 11:08 PM

Agreed! I'm actually annoyed at the word "haters" and seeing those "haters gonna hate" pictures all over the internet.

Also, I love diatoms! I want to get a tattoo of radiolarians!

Son_of_None

Son_of_None

USA
December 2010

MAR 11, 2011 11:44 PM

Wisest. Blog. Ever.

IndieBuddhist

IndieBuddhist

Oshawa, ON
April 2009

MAR 12, 2011 08:49 AM

Self-realization is hard and easy at the same time.

Fatality

Fatality

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

MAR 12, 2011 09:42 AM

true

ron4164

ron4164

Ponchatoula, LA
January 2007

MAR 12, 2011 07:49 PM

Very astute observation. smile

veganjihad

veganjihad

Chicago, IL
OLD SKOOL

MAR 12, 2011 09:10 PM

Teenagers

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