You should move to the US.

You're a purple-haired strangeling who works in the computed arts. There are many of your kin in San Francisco.

If you try to be awesome for someone or something, you will always belong to that person or thing. You'll always depend on them. And you'll never be as awesome as you have the potential to be. Be awesome for yourself. Once you can do that, the someone or something you want will come to you.

Change is good. I've been away for a year now... pretty sure I don't want to go back... or stick around
Good luck! xx

Move to Switzerland..

Find one or more passions and let them take you away. When you slave towards a human, it is exactly that. You now have a form of co-dependency, for better or worse. If you want liberation, it has to have an element of selfishness that is both tangible (material), and nurturing (your mind, and laying it down on a mediun) The arts satisfy in a profound but narcissistic way. But, you don't have to answer to anyone. This can be attained where you are (locale),or where you think you want to go.
As for relationships, reciprication is a must. Without it comes power on one end, and extends as another form of narcissism, but one that tears the flesh of another. There is another term for the recipiant of such games; it's called suffering.
Most important: simplify!!! It takes much invententory and some setbacks, and maybe removal from people who you thought cared for you. This is the difficult part (letting go), but can be acheived without too much guilt. Remember, you owe no one. And the poeple who do understand you and care, they will let you go to find what you need. And they will be there for you, regardless of distance.
As for social networks,I deleted all my friends on my personal Facebook..and I look back with little regret..
SG is a social network, and you will find it as debilitating as any other if you let it.

be awesome for yerself first..and then everything else should somewhat fall in line sweets. Sometimes moving/starting all over is a good thing. But circle the wagons and live for yourself, you'll feel better Im sure...
xo

i know that feeling too well

Yes move to the US....

Hey girl, I agree with some of the comments above re-evaluate yourself but never, never, never slave yourself to something or someone that would cause you unnecessary suffering and rememeber that the first person to LOVE is yourself. When you are good with your inner then you can take it to the outside and then you automatically will find the right people for you.

Don't know to much but maybe these times are really hard for humanity. Time to reorder stuff, reinvent oursevles and question about everything.

So just enjoy your life, be happy, travel, cry, smile, discover, get out your fears and remember that you have a friend in me and if I can help you with some advice, well here I'am. Take care and do your best

I know it was said, but be awesome to yourself, and everything else will fall into place. Best wishes

hey Katherine! you should come visit the Rocky Mountains in Canada, I guarantee it will change your life; It changed mine
cheers