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What is a relationship to you?
Friendships have limits that are rarely spoken about and never obsessed over.
relationships have limits that are often spoken about and obsessed over.
which one of these seen most successful to you?
to me, when you enter a relationship you agree to share, you should have nothing you'd want to keep from the other person and if problems arise they can be tackled together.
you should want for every second to make them happy, and if you know your not you should explain why, apologise and try again.
if you are just acting like friends you might as well just be friends. let them go so they can be more than friends with someone else.
humans weren't born to be with one person , but if you do feel like straying, sit the fuck down and really think about why that is.
it is always half their fault, and half yours.
do not completely depend on them. remember who you were before you met them and hang on to some of it. this is why they fell for you in the first place.
you can however rely on them to be there for you, they want to help you as you would help them. don't think its too much trouble. and if you think your a burden then think why you may be. maybe you can change something.
forgive them. Every one says things they don't mean. talk it through so they knew it hurt you but don't try to make them feel bad. everyone says things in moment of high emotion. they only feel strongly emotional because they feel strongly about you.
girls only want to talk about feelings cause they care about you.
boys don't want to talk about feelings cause they care about you.
Explain yourself. you decision is valid, there is no disputing it. just explain yourself.
they are afraid of losing you. but in life we are taught to hide our pain. they are still with you aren't they?
And if they are not, then do what you like, obsess over it, forget it, murder it. just so long as you act human, your not a machine. it will hurt. just know that there is someone else there, dying to be with you.
I'm hurting. This is all my opinion. Not fact xx
Friendships have limits that are rarely spoken about and never obsessed over.
relationships have limits that are often spoken about and obsessed over.
which one of these seen most successful to you?
to me, when you enter a relationship you agree to share, you should have nothing you'd want to keep from the other person and if problems arise they can be tackled together.
you should want for every second to make them happy, and if you know your not you should explain why, apologise and try again.
if you are just acting like friends you might as well just be friends. let them go so they can be more than friends with someone else.
humans weren't born to be with one person , but if you do feel like straying, sit the fuck down and really think about why that is.
it is always half their fault, and half yours.
do not completely depend on them. remember who you were before you met them and hang on to some of it. this is why they fell for you in the first place.
you can however rely on them to be there for you, they want to help you as you would help them. don't think its too much trouble. and if you think your a burden then think why you may be. maybe you can change something.
forgive them. Every one says things they don't mean. talk it through so they knew it hurt you but don't try to make them feel bad. everyone says things in moment of high emotion. they only feel strongly emotional because they feel strongly about you.
girls only want to talk about feelings cause they care about you.
boys don't want to talk about feelings cause they care about you.
Explain yourself. you decision is valid, there is no disputing it. just explain yourself.
they are afraid of losing you. but in life we are taught to hide our pain. they are still with you aren't they?
And if they are not, then do what you like, obsess over it, forget it, murder it. just so long as you act human, your not a machine. it will hurt. just know that there is someone else there, dying to be with you.
I'm hurting. This is all my opinion. Not fact xx
NOV 14, 2011 04:54 PM
And it's a damn good opinion... agree with all, and wish you all the best 
NOV 14, 2011 04:57 PM
Those are effective and beautiful words.. Pain is fleeting. this to shall pass.
Your as pretty as you are intelligent.
I have no doubt you'll conquer this period in your life and come out smiling. 
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NOV 14, 2011 08:21 PM
Nice way of thinking and feeling. Loved your blog and remember that to make others happy, first you must be happy with yourself... the rest will come naturally.
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