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MAY 12, 2003 @ 03:57 PM

today is so beautiful out so i took a long walk, i went to macy's and got some new mac make up...i am addicted, then swung into the post office and then a thrift store. it was great...well except....

what the hell is up with the guys in the city. i mena do they really think that it is a compliment to drive by you and honk, or get up in your face to tell you they like your ass, or stare and your tits as you walk by. i freakin' hate it. makes me want to just stay in my own home where i dont feel like a piece of meat...so i guess it is ironic to complain about this on a sorta "porn" site, but i feel like this site is more empowering for me then anything i have ever done, i love suicidegirls. anyhow what do you do in this situation? once i was in a really nasty mood and just over the cat calls and when some guy got in my face i slapped him, i know violence is not the answer and i am really not like that it was just one comment too many. but seriously what is a 5'1 girl suppose to do to make these assholes keep to themselves. i can wear a potatoe sack and it just doesnt make a difference and i dont feel like i should have to change what i want to do just cause i dont want to hear it. i do not go to certain area where there are lots of people around trying to score weed and hookers if i have a lowcut shirt on, just not worth it.

oh but an amazing this happened on my work with this one dude that started chatting me up or whatever. he was talking about he always sees me around and thinks of all women as his sisters with different last names and that he loves women. then he walked out into oncoming traffic stopping this one lady in a BMW, rubbing the hood ornament and smiling at her. amazing. this city has the craziest people ever.

Sadie

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

MAY 12, 2003 04:27 PM

i just ignore them dont let them get to me i think you have to be that way living here or youll just walk around mad all the time

webigailboop

Vancouver, WA

January 2003

MAY 12, 2003 04:37 PM

usually i just ignore them or yell "stop looking at me" or when they do their pathetic cat calls i usually flip them off and say "shut up."
people are such assholes sometimes

Grelvis1

Van Nuys, CA

May 2003

MAY 12, 2003 05:01 PM

You need to lobby with all the women out there and make it mandatory for hot chicks to carry guns. It's a win-win situation for you. Unfortunately, SG will lose a lot of it's male membership, but as long as there credit cards keep paying, I don't think anyone will complain!

Stiles

Oakland, CA

November 2002

MAY 12, 2003 05:15 PM

Y'know, I've never found a girl with hard saddlebags,(let alone color-matched ones!) and it's probably a good thing, too. Everyone gets a ride, indeed

PaulNikon

Palm Bay, FL

March 2003

MAY 12, 2003 08:03 PM

SF as more beautiful women per capita of any city I've been in. Those guys must wear themselves out.

Are they pimps? I'm being serious. So many prostitutes in that city. Some very good looking ones even. They are probably pimps looking for new meat.

Ignore them. Get a car.

[Edited on May 12, 2003]

cobraXclutch

Richmond, VA

March 2003

MAY 12, 2003 08:38 PM

you know, doll, you're such a beautiful girl, it's kind of hard to help it. i'm thankful you didn't catch me all the times i drooled over you while at VCU. cause god knows chrissy and jenn didn't let me get away with it.

i can't really add much more to what everyone else has said...i guess ignoring it is the best bet. if you really feel you need something, i can suggest perhaps a tazer? they're pretty effective. i really don't know, i don't get much in the way of catcalls or come ons. we semi retarded pro wrestlers aren't all that attractive.

KRANKOR

Foley, AL

December 2002

MAY 13, 2003 01:12 AM

you know i once tried creamics

but i failed horrid

but comedy came easy
and i became a stand up
and a writer
but it dosent pay the bills like creamics does

plasticfangs

Portland, OR

OLD SKOOL

MAY 13, 2003 02:04 PM

Hahahaha...crazy people aplenty, scummy dudes, BMWS, waitresses...sounds like you live in LA...

It's always weird realizing how bizzare it would be being a woman, and having to deal with men being so blatantly crass, throwing sexual remarks at you on a daily basis.

I see it at clubs all the time; guys walk up to girls and just start trying to grope them, or they whisper the most vulgar things in the girl's ear...and it's apparent that the girls are about as UN-interested as you could possible be, but still the guys keep on trying...

I would offer some friendly advice, but sadly, I have no experiences in the matter. But I will offer you my condolences.

MUSIC!!! Gots ta love it! Thanks for the compliments; I was actually a bit worried people were going to get pissed at my list, but there is just so much crap in music I can't stand...and as far as Hot Hot Heat; you are so totally right! It's always hard for me to deal with the underground bands I like getting popular...one one hand, you want to see them prosper and receieve the recognition they deserve, and it's good to see more people listening to good music...but at the same time, it sort of cheapens your own appreciation of the band, and then you're forced to deal with the over-saturation of a band ('cuz radio and MTV just love to play a song into the the fucking ground)..plus mainstream success has a tendency to ruin a band's future material for soem reason...so anyways, I know exactly we you are coming from...

Thanks for the advice on Hint, Hint; as a matter of fact, I just started a list of stuff I want to hear yesterday, and that will fit nicely into the other stuff I'm looking for! Any future suggestions are certainly welcome!

plasticfangs

Portland, OR

OLD SKOOL

MAY 13, 2003 02:09 PM

PS - Yeah, I did notice the whole "Fave Girls" thing, actually...kind weird, I know...I think I just have this "Snow White" fetish thing... to each their own, I suppose...

plasticfangs

Portland, OR

OLD SKOOL

MAY 13, 2003 06:29 PM

Heeheeheee...I like the Hot Snakes, actually! So keep on sugesting, I likes where ya going with this!

Soraya

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

MAY 14, 2003 11:34 AM

shit girl. we must have missed each other by mere minutes. i went to the mac counter that day too. i haven't bought myself any makeup or anything in over 6 months or so, so i went and got some eyeshadow stuff and then i went to that thrift store on valencia where you can get stuff by the pound, but i didn't find anything good, or that fit really. that's so funny. what if we ran into each other again randomly. in a city this big too.

about that whole nasty ass men bs - i just started wearing headphones, you know for a cdplayer. half the time i don't even have any music on. i wear them everwhere. on the bus, grocery shopping, walking down the street. that way you look busya nd you don't ever have to feel any sort of obligation to respond at all. you just pretend like you can't even hear them. but you ahve to be more attentive cause it also makes you look like an easy target for shady shit, like getting attacked or whatever. god, why the fuck do we even have to deal with this shit. anyways.... works wonders for me.

plasticfangs

Portland, OR

OLD SKOOL

MAY 14, 2003 01:45 PM

Moving Units are great! They're playing down here on Friday...I need to see them really badly!!!

Black Heart Procession is really good, as well...haven't heard their latest album, though (I heard it was a Tropical album, which is just weird, but sounds interesting).

I've only heard one song from Q and Not U, but I liked what I heard. And I have never heard of Errortype 11! What do they sound like?

plasticfangs

Portland, OR

OLD SKOOL

MAY 14, 2003 04:09 PM

HOLY CRAP-IN-MY-PANTS!!! Your Candid picrtures are AAAWWWEEEESSSOOOMMMEEEE!!!!!!

The one of you in the tub is just about the coolest thing I have ever seen!!!!

Ok...just thought I should mention it...cute kitty-kat, BTW...

PS - Have you ever thought about loaning your visage (clothed, of course) to an aspiring young rock band?
(:::whistles, twiddles thumbs::: )

[Edited on May 14, 2003]

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