Maybe it's just a "heat of the moment" sort of thing and he'll take that back. I hope at least

^^ +1 what Padre said.

Communication can often be difficult, even in the best relationships, at the best of times. Perhaps what he's asking for is not what he actually needs or wants. (We men aren't best known for our communication skills.) Unfortunately, what's likely needed most right now is clear thinking, which may be near impossible in this situation. Is marriage counseling something he would agree to? Even if not, I'd suggest it for you, at least to think about. It's not "doctor, help me/us fix where we went wrong" time, but it may help getting an unbiased 3rd view into the situation, just to help nudge things back in the right direction, if that's what right for you both. If there are children in your life, it may be beneficial to consider something similar for them (it helped me as a child).

Sorry for the unsolicited advice; I know we don't know each other. I've just been around divorce in all it's stages for much of my life, both as a child and as an adult, and I know it can be a tough time. I do hope things work out for the best between you both.

Been there, it's a shit deal. Don't get sucked into solitude, these moments are why we have friends. Hope you get through it relatively unscathed.

I don't know what you believe in, but this is certainly terrible thing to endure. I can only hope in the future you'll have good news for you. It may not seem like it now but it's always and up and down thing with life.

.... gosh...

Very sorry to hear this. I'd find that speach frustrating as it sounds like sementics. Hope things somehow improve.