SuicideGirl: Feyne
I’m private
 
NOVEMBER 17, 2011 @ 06:59 AM


Not sure if I want to leave permanently or if I should just let my SG account as it is, activated, and wait for a year or two to see how things go here. I may choose the second option and remain silent for a while. Seems somehow hypocritical though. And I hate hypocrisy.

SG has become one big, big paradox to me.

I wish it was a place where women would be allowed to express their opinions openly and say out loud:

I know who I am.

This is who I am.

I embrace it.

I know who I am not, and I am not the product of my society.

I have no complex. About my body. About my opinions. About my life choices.

I am free. I didn’t let anyone condition me to believe in the shitty things the society wants me to believe in. I am free from the education my parents gave me, from the prejudice, from the system telling me what is beautiful, ugly, good, bad. I am free from you – who see my naked body on the Internet – and from what you may think of it.

No tattoos or piercings involved here. Values, only.

Isn't SG supposed to be a place where difference and pride in being different prevail? Does it celebrate alternative beauty and way of life of women from all over the world, as it says it does?

All I personally see today here is the celebration of professional photo retouching, professional quality photography and the race towards perfect, flawless bodies in perfect, flawless sets. This is not me.


Questions:

Are over-retouched photographs helping in redefining beauty?

How cosmetic surgery could possibly be compatible with alternative beauty?

Which leads to the hardest one: how digitally manipulated photographs of surgically retouched girls could convey a positive message on alternative and redefined beauty?

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reypulque

reypulque

I'm lost
October 2007

FEB 07, 2012 10:31 AM

Well, at least it sounds cozy.

abigbat

abigbat

United Kingdom
October 2010

FEB 10, 2012 03:32 PM

I joined this site in order to meet interesting, unique individuals. On the most part it has lived up to that; SG appears to be as a neat wee community centered around personal expression, and I have met a bunch of nice people. I have, however, encountered a lot of the folk you describe, clearly here for nothing other than pageviews and minor fame. I say fair play to them; that's their prerogative and if it makes them feel good then no harm done. You should feel proud to stand out amongst the crowd, and to attract people through your personality as well as your photographs.

Louis_XIV

Louis_XIV

France
August 2007

FEB 11, 2012 04:09 AM

Tiens, ça m'a fait penser à toi, puisque t"aimes bien les loups :
http://vimeo.com/35816559

Torlano

Torlano

USA
October 2007

FEB 14, 2012 04:26 PM

kisskiss

Horton

Horton

SUICIDEGIRL

France

FEB 16, 2012 12:00 PM

superbe comment
mimoune te remercie
je te remercie
bisouto (c'est bien bisous en italien, hein ???)

Tredien

Tredien

Portugal
June 2007

FEB 17, 2012 10:56 AM

Glad you ain't leaving, you can always pop to say hi once in a while! smile

And even though the staff is more product oriented there's still the people, and some MR sets are really nice.
It's only sad they don't get bought and the girls get nothing for the work other then the members appreciation. frown

Hope you're doing well! smile

Muguette

Muguette

France
August 2010

FEB 17, 2012 11:29 AM

Oh merci beaucoup <3 Je participe sporadiquement au forum SG France et je tiens pas mon blog régulièrement, donc je suis pas bien active non plus au final!

Waldo_Jeffers

Waldo_Jeffers

United Kingdom
OLD SKOOL

FEB 17, 2012 12:58 PM

love

kerabera

kerabera

France
December 2009

FEB 17, 2012 02:57 PM

je te pardonne bien evidement ta lenteur universelle de tes réponses.
car je sais qu'il fait froid et que tu dois sans doute être bien au chaud au fond de ton terrier en train d'hiberner.
à dans 3 mois à ton réveille biggrin

kiss

Liu

Liu

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

FEB 18, 2012 09:45 AM

agree

lesabre

lesabre

Minneapolis, MN
March 2007

FEB 19, 2012 07:29 AM

like the new format, buon giornolove

HowlingWolf

HowlingWolf

Mexico
July 2011

FEB 19, 2012 09:54 AM

Nice way of modifying your profile, like it and thanks for sharing some of your life here. And I do like France especially Paris and Carcassonne biggrin

reypulque

reypulque

I'm lost
October 2007

FEB 19, 2012 02:19 PM

Always a treat to hear from a treasure. Hope all is at least a little better than the bitter to be expected.

desmobile

desmobile

France
February 2004

FEB 20, 2012 02:27 AM

hello feyne i'm back et content de the voir encore làbiggrin

Zebrah

Zebrah

HOPEFUL

Columbus, OH

FEB 20, 2012 07:46 AM

personally i feel women like you are what makes sg what it is if you all keep leaving then what will us young hopefuls have to be inspired by i personally am a hugefan and ive always idilized you as a model /person as i know your blogs make you out to be your a sweet ,beauiful person inside and out i dont want you to leave just as 1000's of your friends/fans dont . but if at this point you personally feel you can no longer be here i respect that <3 but keep if it wasnt for you and all the other original sg's it wouldnt be where it is . i feel keep your photography /sets the way you want to be dont care about what everyone else is doing or what they look like shit if they think that beauty let em do it but you show what beauty really is and trust me itll make a difference <3 ily!!!

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