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APRIL 27, 2008 @ 02:51 PM


ok..so my boyfriend wants to have a 3some.... im down for it and so is my gurl.. ive never had one before... how would you "start" something like that so to say... lol... im open to any ideas.... biggrin
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Erichasfinewine

Erichasfinewine

Tucson, AZ
September 2005

APR 27, 2008 02:58 PM

The best way is for all you to get together and talk about it. You have to set ground rules and make sure all are in agreement. If you don't someone could get upset and all is ruin. Have fun!!! kiss kiss

bairdduvessa

bairdduvessa

Centerville, MA
April 2005

APR 27, 2008 03:01 PM

i have no idea but i wish you luck

MoniRose

MoniRose

Brooklyn, NY
April 2005

APR 27, 2008 03:06 PM

Step one... Invite me!!
Step two... Sit back and enjoy the ride....

love

haha....but seriously...You would be soo surprised how these things ride themselves through...doesnt take much effort...Just requires one person to kinda choreograph some of it..

Start with kissing and touching....start with the removable of some clothes...oral sex...Switch up who's licking who... start with some masterbation...and you will be surprised how the rest figures itself out... love

Tangerello

Tangerello

Missoula, MT
June 2007

APR 27, 2008 03:06 PM

In my experiences, you should have sort of a casual conversation beforehand, maybe not right before the actual act, but just sometime beforehand so you can figure out what everyone is comfortable with.

To avoid any awkwardness, we have usually started the night just hanging out, listening to music and drinking wine. Things sort of naturally progress after about 3 glasses apiece, lol. Good luck and have fun!

Dorsal

Dorsal

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

APR 27, 2008 03:08 PM

I've had one before, you should definatly maybe have some wine, beer or liquor or whatever you prefer to drink. It helps with the relaxing.

Yes it will be akward at first but TRUST ME ITS FUN

love

AlvynaUmagumma

AlvynaUmagumma

HOPEFUL

Ottawa, ON

APR 27, 2008 03:18 PM

i'd start with booze, but then again, i have a history of botching such things, lol tongue

but seriously, have fun, and just keep the lines of comunication open on the subject to avoid misunderstandings
you'll have a blast kiss

wyldechylde

wyldechylde

San Jose, CA
November 2004

APR 27, 2008 03:50 PM

Me and my girlfriend are in this same situation. I think it all depends on the mood set but it would be best to go out and loosen up first. Whatever that involves for all of you (drinks, sexy movie, porn anything really) and then let your instincts guide you. If its someone you know (and it sounds like it is) then that'll make it real easy because you can straight up ask beforehand what kinds of things get her in the mood.

dpgc44

dpgc44

San Francisco, CA
October 2006

APR 27, 2008 05:31 PM

Well besides that your boyfriend is a lucky fuck.. I would have to say that no drunken threesomes! Way to crazy to handle the first time. The best time is the morning or mid sleep.. the distorted feeling is pretty cool..lol

FlyGuy76

FlyGuy76

Jacksonville, FL
July 2006

APR 30, 2008 05:18 AM

Well you all three go to you room or couch, and you should, start it out. Kiss her, then him, then she or he will kiss the other, Start taking his clothes off then her, and let him take yours off. Have fun!!! Not sure if this will be good for your relationship. Try not to get jealous if he makes a sound with her, or if she really enjoys him and him her..

discosleaze

discosleaze

HOPEFUL

United Kingdom

MAY 03, 2008 06:13 AM

alcohol always helps but yeah i think you should talk about it before hand just to make sure you know where everyone stands
xx

Interzone

Interzone

Denver, CO
September 2005

AUG 16, 2008 08:22 AM

So, wait...not only does your boyfriend get to have sex with you...but now he gets to have a threesome with you and whom I am assuming is another gorgeous girl? Man...some guys get all the luck!!!

And it looks like you've received some really good input here. I agree with everyone suggesting keeping those lines of communication open. The one time I did this, it wound up ruining my relationship because we never fully discussed it beforehand. It just kind of "happened" one night...

Anyway, I look forward to hearing how this all goes down!! wink

photoline

photoline

Edmonton, AB
January 2005

DEC 09, 2008 10:43 PM

3 green lights = go for it! Just let it happen spontaneously! Have fun!

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