nothing to explain...men are just getting dumber and as a guy i can admit that and it's okay. to be honest i really don't know why someone would distance themselves if they say they like you. myself i would be happy as a cute little bunny to have someone to love and who would love me back. wish i could be of more help other than my ramble of nothingness...or you could date me.

who knew eh girl

Well, guys will distance themselves when they're scared to commit, OR don't want to hurt the other person by rejecting them.
Which is too bad for them. You're incredibly beautiful.

pull his hair and run away giggling ..it worked in kindergarden and should still be quite effective!!! also men want a challenge, so pull harder and run faster!!! If that doesn't work it's because he likes someone else better but is using you as his fall back cause he knows you are a sure thing cause "you like him"
Don't be suprised if he calls you for the drunk booty call.....don't answer!!

she pretty much hit hte nail on the head with that one. merlowe that is. yeah he's working on something else otherwise he would be all over you. i would. don't fall for the booty call. unless you have realized that booty is all he wants and you just want a piece too. then by all means use him and throw him in the gutter.

merlowe is right, as is IndieBuddhist...as sad as it is, Men are stupid this way and will ultimately miss out on living a good life with someone if they feel there is always something else out there for them. I've seen women do the same thing.

The truth is we all make our own happiness in this world and we get out of it what we put into it. Some people (men and women included) have yet to learn this lesson.

I've chosen to just do my own thing and if someone comes along then I'll be happy...if not then I'll be happy knowing I've achieved everything I wanted in this life and truly applied my art to everything I do. This may not help too much but just know that if someone desn't show the love and effection towards you that you would hope for then maybe it's time to move on.

I hope that you find someone that feels the same as you do for them. As I always say, Keep your chin up and give 'em hell everyday

I dont 'game date' if you figure it out let me know because I cant force myself to play those weird BS games

Most people dont know what they want whether they know it or not. Biggest problem of it all is finding someone who is attractive and has their shit together in the areas your looking for. Some times its worth looking outside of your normal attraction zones, never really know where it will put you/end up. Dont settle for less than you would like to have though, tends to make life uncomfortable. Hardest part is finding someone genuine and not an aura leech/liar. Best of luck to you lady. Welcome back to the crazy hormone driven factory of chaos.

guys think they know how women work but we're all different! they'll never learn. maybe distance yourself from him so he sees that it doesnt feel to great

omg, seriously girl? Guys tell you they want you till they have you, till they feel bad about fucking with you, or till they get something else they want. Occasionally a guy will actually want you without any bullshit reasons behind it. I hate to say it, but decent guys that dont play with girls or at least have the balls to tell you to your face what they are about are a dying breed. I am a counselor of sorts, i used to give out advice on the radio but i still get emails asking for advice so if you ever have any probs give me a buzz and ill gladly help

Games are for children. Yes?

If they aren't straightforward with you....they aren't worth your time....no matter how pretty.

We men are severely ignorant when it comes to women. I don't understand the distancing thing though. I tend to do the opposite, and apparently am too nice of a guy. Can't give any advice or explanation. I wish it were a lot simpler.

Dating "scene." This could be part of the problem.

whoa, that guy above me is kind of rude huh?

I sometimes feel like girls want to make the pie chart out of their situation with the guy, and guys make a pie chart and the girl is a big slice of it. hope that makes sense. (not always true either)