I don't know what it is like to birth them, but I know what it is like to raise them. Two is enough for me. lol

3 is my absolute breaking point!! 11 yr old boy and 7 yr old twin girls by myself! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MOOOOOOORE! BTW I couldn't live w/out them!

*smirks*
having the two that made is good enough for me - they're a handful sometimes (though worth it, of course)

Soon my dear!

Don't know nothin' 'bout birthin' no babies.......

If he is into doing a lot of yardwork and landscaping then the pool could be a good thing. One of the neighbors pool setups is all out and has really nice landscaping all around it so there is privacy and it looks really good. IT's something to look into if you do end up going that route. I think that the salt water style ones require less chlorine and chemicals too so it's easier on the wallet, the environment and your time.