I thought your latest effort was exemplary of what this site should be about,
but there's no way to gauge what the fickle masses may be into today.
I hope your self-esteem hasn't been too mussed up - - you seem fairly awesome to me,
& although we don't really know each other
if you do decide to leave, it's understood; you've got to do what is best for you
I dont understand. The Huge % number under your set , I thought, meant people liked the set. I guess i dont get why that is destructive to your self image. I dont no, Im just some jerk on this site so dont feel the need to give an answer to me. Just another thing I wont ever understand about women. Sucks to hear your leaving. Personally i loved your sets and good luck in the future...........and happy birthday.
It sucks that it has to be this way? Ir really does! That's not fair to you! You are a beautiful lady, and you being self assured is very courageous. I do hope you know that your stance on this matter is very mature and inspiring. I hope you find fortune in your future endeavors! Take care!
I feel the same about the %. Whenever my sets are low and with less comments than others I begin to question myself and what's wrong with me. But you are still perfect for the site, and I hope you don't leave permanently
I would absolutely hate to see you go for that reason. You really are an inspiration, and the sort of woman who made me want to join the site in the first place.
its a shame that we are ruled by numbers. we measure ourselves against them and sometimes change ourselves to achieve higher values.
While I am still new to this site, replying and reading when I can, I don't think the ever so present "%" should provide a way of how you yourself should view you. I frankly couldn't do what Hopefuls and Pink girls do, do these photo shoots, post them for 'x' number of people to view. I think thats a form of courage, a level of self esteem in yourself that you are pitting against a %?
I wouldn't leave this site for that. I think those all above this post have shown that they would love for you to stay and be you.
so long as in reality you're surrounded by people who love you, that's the most important thing.
But i get what you mean about things changing. I;ve been here 4 years and it seems to...i dunno, so many desperate girls in competition. Hope you come back anyway lovely. x
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