SuicideGirl: Cristabelle
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MAY 10, 2008 @ 10:44 AM

Question:

if it were YOUR girlfriend who modeled on SG, would you want her to stop posing naked for strangers online? i get it in a way, but i love SG and i dont just model up on here for random attention. its more than that, its a fun community of people and i like what this site stands for over other random sites or modeling jobs.

Another aspect: im a teacher...my bf says i could always write off the two sets by saying it was way in the past, but if i do more, i could jeopordize things. ?

What do you think? i need some different perpectives/opinions/advice!

Thanks! Love you!

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Maximus_73

Maximus_73

Edmonton, AB
September 2003

MAY 10, 2008 10:52 AM

I say do what you want! If you want to model for SG, model for SG! Do what makes you happy.

armorer520

armorer520

Fairbanks, AK
February 2007

MAY 10, 2008 10:52 AM

if i was your boyfriend i would not have any problems with you on SG, cause I know that instead of pictures i get the real thing

Ferretbite

Ferretbite

Mexico
September 2006

MAY 10, 2008 10:52 AM

If I knew that beforehand, I wouldn't have the right to have a problem, and if girlfriend made the choice while we're together, then I'd try to be supportive.

Although, in all truth, I probably would feel uncomfortable with some of the creepy folk at first, before we turned it into a joke.

Sadly, I do see nude modeling and teaching might not go well together, but it depends a lot on what level you're teaching.

Abbiss

Abbiss

SUICIDEGIRL

Belgium

MAY 10, 2008 11:19 AM

For the boyfriend, I wouldn't care. For work, I do care. I'm lucky I'm from a country where SG is not too much knowned..

CandyCrimson

CandyCrimson

Philadelphia, PA
September 2007

MAY 10, 2008 11:32 AM

It depends on what his intentions are. Does he have you in his best interest and is genuinely concerned that it could affect your future, or is he jealous and wants you all to himself? Personally I think this decision should be soley yours. If you love being here, we love having you! kiss
Also, I think SG is overall an amazing site. It's tasteful. I'm really against people getting let go from jobs just because they've posed nude. I mean REALLY. Aren't there more important things to worry about?! I wonder how the legalities of all that works.

ron4164

ron4164

Ponchatoula, LA
January 2007

MAY 10, 2008 11:49 AM

It's your life Cristabelle.
I personally wouldn't mind one bit. In fact, I'd love it! biggrin
Now work is another place. Hmm...it's not like you go around with a huge "I'm a SG" sign on your back!
Your personal life should have no bearing in your job performance though.
This is a community, hope you stay sweetie. kiss kiss

Shazzy

Shazzy

Montreal, QC
August 2003

MAY 10, 2008 11:50 AM

Maybe just make your next set a bit more PG-13.

Twelve

Twelve

Bay City, MI
April 2007

MAY 10, 2008 11:53 AM

If you were going to get in trouble for having nudie pictures on the internet, I don't think it would make a significant difference when the pictures were taken.

That's not a value judgment--just the way I see things go down.

"Naked on the internet" isn't a protected class, so you aren't specifically protected from being fired over it. That said, it isn't really related to your qualifications or ability to do the job, so it could be difficult to fire you for just that.

Depending on what level you're teaching, they could possible make the argument that it's inappropriate behavior for someone with your job, and they'll certainly use it to attack your character.

If you're a high school or elementary teacher, I'd contact your union rep about it. I imagine professors are relatively immune to this sort of thing, especially once they're tenured.

As for the boyfriend thing; I wouldn't have a problem with it, but I seem to be a minority in that regard amongst my friends.

chazgasm

chazgasm

Buffalo, NY
December 2004

MAY 10, 2008 11:57 AM

Id say dont stop doing it for the bf, thats just lame, stopping for work is a whole nother story, thats really up to you and how safe you think you can keep yourself, i mean no matter what if they found out old sets or new id say you were screwed

xjohnnyutahx

xjohnnyutahx

Worcester, MA
January 2004

MAY 10, 2008 11:58 AM

Did your boyfriend meet you through the site, or did he know you posed when he met you? And when did he start having issues with it? Those are important questions to gauge his intentions. Personally I would not have a problem with it.

The job aspect is a different story. If your students or a parent ever found out it would most likely end your career.

rictorblackbus

rictorblackbus

Miami, FL
December 2007

MAY 10, 2008 11:58 AM

Tricky territory. If it really will jeopardize your teaching career, that's one thing.

As for the boyfriend, it's pretty instinctual to be a bit jealous of his woman being seen in a sexual manner by other men, it gets all madonna/whore from there. Basically, if that's where this is all coming from, a compromise must be found on both your parts.

If I was your dude, it might take some getting used to, but I would try to accept the fact that you get naked on the internet. I'm not gonna talk shit and say I wouldn't mind, because I probably would mind random dudes I don't know jerking it to my woman's pics and all that. But then again, I am hispanic, So I got all that macho bullshit in me.

stinkyfj60

stinkyfj60

Alamosa, CO
February 2007

MAY 10, 2008 12:18 PM

Teaching, maybe. I am going to become a teacher too, so I know there are certain things I just cant do...

Relationship wise, I wish I had a girlfriend that posed on Suicide Girls wink THat would be a really good thing....

ozzz

ozzz

Miami, FL
April 2005

MAY 10, 2008 12:48 PM

Listen, I'm sure your BF has his reasons, and even though you might not agree with them he still has them. You may view what you do for SG as a release, of a way to empower yourself, or maybe you simply get off on the attention. Whatever reasons, there your reasons, just as he has his reasons why he might have a problem with what you do here. I'm sure he'll come under fire here and people will say he sucks or "fuck him" it's your choice. The fact is that asking people around here what they think about a BF that's opposed to you posing and being an SG is like going to a Democratic convention and asking if you should vote Republican, it's just gonna stir the masses, but you might not get the answer you're searching for.

Fact is, you need to do what's best for you. Now, being young and naked in a site that can appreciate it and praise you for it might seem exiting and fun, but in the long run, is it what's best for YOU? before criticizing his reasons, you need to step back and see through unclouded eyes if he might have a legitimate point. If he's your BF, and you like him, hell, if you think that you might love him and have a future together with him, and if you really love teaching, and educating and molding young minds and you truly believe that that's your calling in life, is SG and posing nude for as you say "a bunch of strangers" really worth putting all of the above mentioned in jeopardy?

I for one think you're a stunning SG, and one of my favorites. Your sets are creative, sensual, sexy, and just naughty enough to let people know you're not just any other SG. But I also believe that this isn't a career, it's just a phase, a place in life where some of these girls leave their mark and consider themselves lucky that they were found beautiful and interesting enough to be an SG and be part of this community, lifestyle and escape from the daily bullshit grind. It's you're little taste of stardom, and you all deserve it. But all this also comes with consequences. Sure the members here get and appreciate what you're doing, but let's face it, this IS the internet and nothing that's put here ever stays here, ESPECIALLY SG sets. And beyond the walls of SG the rest of the world might not share it's understanding or acceptance of what SG's do here, whether it's tasteful or not. So yeah, of course there's a risk this could come back to haunt you, you are a teacher after all.

But what you need to do is to take all the facts, the pro's and con's, what truly matters to you in life, and make an informed decision, one that's gonna be what's best for you. Sure everyone's gonna have an opinion, but it's your life, and it's your choice.

Whatever you decide... Good luck, and we'll be here to support you in it!! wink kiss

ED1E1US

ED1E1US

I'm lost
August 2006

MAY 10, 2008 03:57 PM

It's about how best you can mitigate any risk posed to you. Of course your boyfriend's opinion is just that, and based on your relationship and how you see that progessing will determine how much his opinion factors into your decision. It's your life, and if you were doing this before him then I don't think it's up to him whether or not you give it up

It's your life so live it. After all, any fall out you will have to deal with it, if you are not concerned then why change

xox

The_Boss

The_Boss

I'm lost
June 2007

MAY 10, 2008 04:19 PM

Ummmmm Beau is totally naked on the internet and I support her 200%. He can't support what you enjoy then he can't support anything frown

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