-hugs-

I can't really blame you, because it does sure seem as though males are responsible for more than our share of awful things. But, I must necessarily point out that not all of us do these things, and a great many of us are just as sickened and against these behaviors as you are. I definitely don't think any of these thing are okay, nor do I know anyone who does, as far as I'm aware.

Damn it why is it that a few idiots in my gender have to screw things up for the rest of us! I don't condone such behavior and quite frankly I don't know of any real men that do as well. These are the times that I'm glad I don't have any sisters, because if a guy did any of this stuff to my sister, I'd murder the bastard in the most gruesome way possible!!!!

Ugg. I know what you mean.

That all sounds very unpleasant. I'm sorry to hear there's such ugliness in/around you. Personally, I find it's best to always assume (hetero) males are vile scumbags from the beginning. That way, if they do actually turn out to be halfway decent, it's a nice surprise.
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Yikes! There's no doubt about it--there are a LOT of jerks out there. There's definitely a line where you can't stick by your relatives--and most of the stuff you list definitely crosses it.