SuicideGirl: Casanova
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Casanova is a 23 year-old SuicideGirl in Ohio, USA.

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JULY 21, 2011 @ 08:52 PM


So once again I'll be posting a short blog about how I wish I had the time and energy to post a long blog. lol

I'm back to working full time, trying to save up some money on top of paying all my bills. I'm doing a few shoots (not for SG) soon. And I've been pretty stressed out over a stalker I've recently found out about.

Soooo okay check this shit out:
Someone on tumblr (the link went back to an empty blog) keeps messaging me saying that they run a fake facebook/blog/some site of me (they didn't specify) and that they are better at being me than I am. They claim to be the sole reason my SG sets have been successful and claim full responsibility for all of my "internet success". And apparently now I've somehow pissed them off and they said that they are going to start using this supposed fake site of them pretending to be me to hurt my image in the internet. This person has gone as far as to tell me they have been in my house...that they "pissed in my cheerios and pissed in my bong". They call me by my full real name and even called Maple by her real full name. PRETTY CREEPY. And I don't really know what I can do about it. My messaging on tumblr is set so that you can't be anon, but they just make a blank blog and message me so I can't tell who it is anyhow...and I blocked them, but I have a feeling that they are just going to continue to make more blank blogs to message me on. The messages have gotten longer and more threatening the more I ignore them.

So I ask you this? Do you think there is even anything that anyone could do to help me? Because I don't want to end up disabling the message feature on my tumblr, because most of the messages I receive are actually quite nice and I enjoy chatting with my followers. Ugh. When will the drama end?

See...people often times forget that I am a human being, I'm actually pretty normal. I hold a real blue collar job, I work most days of the week, I have bills I pay, I have animals to feed, and I have a real family and real friends that I have to deal with...on top of trying to be a respectable role model, photoshoots, keeping all my profiles updated...bla bla bla. If this is a taste of the stresses of fame...I would rather be a nobody.

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MutantBaby1

MutantBaby1

USA
March 2009

JUL 21, 2011 09:01 PM

I wouldlove to switch places with you (the being famous part, not the having a vagina part) lol. But seriously, delete your Tumblr profile. Not really a fan of all these "social networking" sites. There's too many of them and too easy for any nutjob to join.

Casanova

Casanova

SUICIDEGIRL

Ohio, USA

JUL 21, 2011 09:08 PM

Tumblr is the last social networking site I enjoy. I refuse to delete it.

Narada_

Narada_

HOPEFUL

USA

JUL 21, 2011 09:12 PM

It sounds like you might have to eventually involve the police. :/ Stay safe!

WisdomTooth

WisdomTooth

Valdez, AK
November 2006

JUL 21, 2011 09:13 PM

You could possibly explain the situation to tumblr and they could possibly block him by his IP address? Not sure if it would work but it might be worth a shot. support@tumblr.com

Hope it all works out for you and you can lose the creeper.

thescarykid

thescarykid

USA
May 2010

JUL 21, 2011 09:23 PM

No point in blocking an IP. Can use a different computer or if they're really good with computers, lets say a hacker, you just go through another computer, so on so fourth. Even if tumblr continued to block IP addresses, not just one or two, they'll come right back. What do you do? Ignore them. Don't mention them in blogs or anything. Unless this person is creeping around where you live, or hacking accounts, ignore them.

But from what I get from shit, most of what your describing is some jack ass that knows how to google and that has way too much time on their hands. I'd just ignore them.

nycstreetpoet

nycstreetpoet

Brooklyn, NY
March 2011

JUL 21, 2011 09:36 PM

You definitely need to document these threats and get law enforcement involved. If you have money, hire a private investigator. Either way, you are putting yourself in danger by not involving people who can protect you. I mean, it could be a sour ex-boyfriend or something, but I wouldn't take the chance. We're talking about your well being here. Stay safe, Cassie. Be well.

Steam_

Steam_

HOPEFUL

USA

JUL 21, 2011 09:37 PM

I have no idea how to proceed here. It's true that with some Computer skills and google, lots of things can be found out. But if they specified something that is really personal or frightening, I would be weary.

agridlockcrime

agridlockcrime

USA
July 2011

JUL 21, 2011 10:04 PM

This gives a breakdown of the cyberharassment and cyberstalking laws. I'm not sure how helpful this will be to you, but I do recommend educating yourself on this. I also encourage you to report this to the authorities. This might be nothing other than someone being an asshole, but I wouldn't really take that chance, as it also could be a credible threat to you.

JoeFX

JoeFX

Seattle, WA
January 2011

JUL 21, 2011 11:35 PM

Your normal and gorgeous love and sorry to hear about that asshole on the Internet, some people have nothing better to do but suck! I don't know what you could do, sucks Hun I hope you can figure something out. And in the meantime, stay beautiful smile Everyone else online loves you! ( and in person 2 I'm sure )

dchucky

dchucky

Grapevine, TX
June 2007

JUL 22, 2011 12:01 AM

I hope you find something you can do to stop them. Maybe anything is better than nothing because you can't be too careful with stuff like this. Stay safe.

ericwine

ericwine

Charlotte Hall, MD
January 2007

JUL 22, 2011 12:32 AM

Though this might be some creepy jerk with too much time on his/her/its hands, don't take any chances. Do whatever you can to stay safe, including not going out alone (this goes for Maple, too, I'm sorry to say). Having tumblr block the person's IP address may not work for the reasons given above, but having them trace it may help the police identify the stalker. Take screenshots and/or print out copies of the messages to take to the police so they can see the increasingly threatening tone.
The stalker is probably full of shit when it says it's been in your house, but try to make a mental note of how you arrange things in your home (right down to how you put your underwear in the drawer) so you'll know if anything may have been disturbed. I hate the thought that you might end up living in fear because some jerk/lunatic has gotten fixated on you. frown

Eveski

Eveski

HOPEFUL

Worcester, MA

JUL 22, 2011 02:04 AM

I tried that link again on fb but it still hasn't let me really report it, although I noticed the blurb in the about me section changed, and the person stated that they were going by whatever name they put there as a fake name to keep anonymity on the Internet. so idk that was weird. but I'd say report it to the police. I know it may seem extreme and might be weird but I think your safety is most important and it's better to be safe than sorry. plus knowing where you live, or even claiming to would freak me out. you're a regular person, and a very nice one at that, you deserve peace of mind and shouldnt have to deal with bull shit like this.

Pyke

Pyke

HOPEFUL

South Africa

JUL 22, 2011 02:35 AM

Some people need to get a life ;/
You re successful on the interwebs because you stunning and sweet smile not because of someone who likes to pee on stuff! Lols
Does tumblr not have a sort of flagging system or a help email?

Alecks

Alecks

Visalia, CA
October 2004

JUL 22, 2011 04:22 AM

well i guess the benefit of your cyber stardom is all these wonderful members giving advice here that i think is really good. i'm sorry one fan is ruining it for the rest and those are some serious threats... as stupid as the pee ones are thats some sort of assault im sure. you havent narrowed it down to anyone huh?

blah anyway... youre working full time and blue collar eh? for some reasom i just picture something so tough... are you a steel worker casanova? perhaps an ice road trucker or something?

Kiley

Kiley

SUICIDEGIRL

Virginia, USA

JUL 22, 2011 05:45 AM

that is the most ridiculous thing. are you sure it's not just some angry girl who wishes they were you that you might know?

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