Bullying..... We all know what to tell kids who are being bullied; tell a teacher, ignore them, bla bla bla.... What are you supposed to do when you get bullied as an adult???

It looks like I have made an enemy on SG. This is a person who at one time I considered a friend. I confided in them and worst of all I trusted this person to take nude pictures of me for this site.... I did everything I could to be a friend to this person including PAYING for their membership ON THIS SITE but in the end I was " just a paycheck"... Because I believed we were friends I bought this person groceries, helped them with their rent and other bills as well as bent over backwards to do everything I could for her kids including buying them food and gifts.... This person has been wasting a lot of time spreading hurtful rumors and saying VERY ugly things about me.... Worst of all, because this person was a photographer as well as a friend not only do they know all of my insecurities but they also have LITERALLY thousands of naked pictures of me and they have posted really bad "unedited" pictures of me on Facebook!

I have no idea how to handle this... How can I make this go away? I can't tell a teacher (lol) and I am tired of ignoring it.... So I decided to put it all out on the table for myself. Since most of my friends have already heard these terrible things I might as well adress it once and for all.... In the end I have to trust in two things...

#1 Karma: I just have to have faith that people will see the ugliness in her for saying such ugly things about me. People who know me, know that I am a kind person. Although I am socially awkward and a bit of a weird-o, I have a big heart and I am NOT mean to children. And although I have had a healthy sex life that I refuse to be ashamed about I am NOT a hooker! LMAO!!!!

.... I know that I have karma on my side because although this person has decided to post pictures they have of ME, I am taking the high road and NOT posting any of the nude pictures I have of THEM and although this person has chosen to attack me as a woman and a mother I will continue to keep my judgements about them to myself.

#2 Hate: It takes a lot of time and stress and negativity to hate someone.... This person has wasted TOO MUCH time spreading ugly rumors about me and just plain talking shit about me.... On the other hand it takes NOTHING to be hated You can hate me until the cows come home and it will no longer affect me.

From this point forward I have said all I needed to say. I will have faith that my friends know the real me and that everyone else will be adult enough to give me a chance without listening to the hurtful words of one person. Hopefully you can move on with your life and forget about me like I will forget about you