listening to Autopsy and eating cake.

Nothing

That you`re free of them, or soon will be if you let yourself. You need a bit of experience so you know what you really want next time. Until then enjoy the things that come from being single. Like doing exactly what you want when you want. Have someone to visit, or vist someone. Go away for the weekend. Go to a museam, rent a film, anything you want.

I`d plan a trip you`ll be taking soon

nothing

going out with a good friend, watching a good movie or simply getting so high you can't remember why you were sad.

Keeping busy with work and friends and family and creative goals and thereby being reminded that there is indeed more to life than that person. Sorry hon, that's the worst. Been there too damn many times.

Make a new art piece that has nothing to do with both of them.
( I was going to suggest making something about the other one and curse it, but that would just remind you more )

That they did it to themselves.

I wish I knew what to tell you on this one.....I'm pretty sure the majority of the population has gone through this at one time or another. I've never found a very good solution.....a distraction to take your mind off of it and time seem to be the only thing that got me through it. Focus on a couple of things that make you the happiest in life for awhile. And, know that it was not your fault.

cheers mate.

And Annalee, you really are an individual. You`ll meet the right boy, worry not.

Wine and pornography.

drugs and making fun of people

I'm going through that same thing right now and it breaks my heart to hear her talk about her boy. But I want her to be happy.

There isn't much that is cheering me up right now.

I was thinking of how they denied themselves what could've been given. Private triumph from private schadenfreude.

There is somebody better.

Be well.