Right now my brother (24, single and looking) is having allot of trouble at home. He is a single father, and rasing my nephew on his own. He lived in Washington state for a while and was really happy there, untell he had his son. The mother..well lets just say she should have never had kids, anyways, my brother took full custody of my nephew, and then moved back to Idaho (where i was born) so that my mom could help out. It was my moms idea, well now, my mom is goin crazy...actualy she has always been crazy, but she has always treated my older brother like he was the most important thing on the planet...and , everybody else was shit. Anways, my mom refuses to help my brother out, so he figures "why not move back to WA, where i was actualy happy." Only if he is there, then he is way less likely to have help, so i offerd to move back there with him. Ive been planning on moving closer to my nephew...he really is the cutes kid. But i think i offered to move before i really thought about. I mean, i have a good job..it doesnt pay well, but they treat me awesome, i have the kick assest apartment, plus my fioncee works over here, and he has an awesome job (pilot), not to mention his son lives over here. Plus there are tons of other things to mention on why i need to stay here, so im tring to figure out a way to get my brother to move here. I mean if he is planning on moving anways, does it really matter on where he is moving too? If he comes her, he has a people to help him with his son, he'll have a place to stay (with me), and im sure he'd find a job here. Ive presented the idea to him already, but he didnt really like it, so how could i convince him to move here?